Sexual Psychology – The Dionysian Experience

The Wall

There is no doubt about it. My favorite fantasy was to watch Sienna experience other men…more endowed men. A great deal of my sexual energy... Read more

Cuckold Corner – Amanda & The Black Mystique

A sexy woman in her early thirties describes explore her fascination with black men and curiosity around cuckolding.

Dionysus – Cock Worship

In ancient Greece, the erect phallus was worshipped as a symbol of Dionysus. Explore the psychology behind this practice.

Cognitive Dissonance: Hestia vs Aphrodite

Exploring the archetypal influence of Hestia and Aphrodite on men and women and the resulting potential for cognitive dissonance within each of us and our relationships.

(Video)Yumi – Calling to You

Yumi is a featured series on The Dionysian Experience. This video explores the erotic energy swirling through our early seductive dance, her struggle with wild... Read more

Yumi: A Delicate Dance

In Yumi: Wax On, Wax Off, my quest for a new esthetician led me to check out an upscale Asian spa where I meet Yumi—a... Read more

The Cuckold Corner – Interview With KC

Cuckold Corner is a series exploring interracial cuckolding as a sexual kink. Join me as KC describes why he and his fiancé finds interracial cuckolding so arousing.

Carol Ann – The Black Mystique (Part II)

My continuation of an interview with Carol Ann (a married white woman) focused on her attraction to black men.

Cuckold Corner: Carol Ann & The Black Mystique (Part I)

In this edition of the Cuckold Corner, I'm pleased to welcome Carol Ann for a stimulating discussion on the allure of interracial sex - the black mystique. Carol Ann is a 33 year-old, white female married to a doctor that is several years her senior. She once wrote about an affair she had several years ago with a young black man. Carol Ann discusses her sexless marriage and the "why" behind her new-found attraction to black men.

Sakura’s American Exposure (Part I)

Sakura’s American Exposure is part narrative, part erotica, and part interview all wrapped in a bow of sexual psychology. My collaborator is Sakura, a young... Read more

Exhibitionism – Exploring the Layers

Exhibitionism is commonly listed among the top-ten fantasies for men, women, and couples. It is certainly one of mine. My cursory exploration of this kink... Read more

Cuckolding: An Introduction and Year Ahead

This post is an introduction to the cuckolding kink and serves as a foundational piece for future discussions. I briefly touch on common variations found in the cuckold fetish and drill down to the core attributes shared by all cuckolds.

Michael’s Cream – Best of 2019

2019 ended up being a great year for my blog and the engaging community that followed. Early on, I was recovering from the misfortune of... Read more

Cuckold Psychology: The Cuck & Camera (Erotic Theatre)

This essay explores the notion of cuckolding as a form of erotic theater and the power dynamic flowing through real-life cuckolding. It also features a powerful reflection by Sienna in the afterglow of our first cuckold experience.

Digital Art: Pink Submission (Don’t Make Me Ask Twice)

Pink Submission first emerged as a themed gallery on my site about 5 years ago. At the time, I didn’t fully appreciate why title felt so... Read more

The Fuck Doll Fantasy – Exploring the Layers

I am endlessly fascinated by the psychology of sexual fantasies. One in particular – the Fuck Doll fantasy – has captured my imagination and I’d... Read more

Cuckold Psychology: Sperm Wars

It is a somewhat uncomfortable confession…that it really turns me on to think about my lover with another man. This sexual desire is known as... Read more

Cuckold vs. FemDom

Cuckolding and Femdom are not the same sexual kink. While they often co-exist in male fantasies, wanting to experience one doesn’t mean you want to experience the other. Come inside to explore the differences.

Cuckold Corner – Amanda on Cock Size

Why should a woman bother with the male, cock-centric kink known as Small Penis Teasing? Ladies, if your man finds this kink arousing, you have the... Read more

Erotic Humiliation – Exploring the Layers

Erotic Humiliation is consensual humiliation that produces sexual arousal. This definition seems pretty clear, but it is much too superficial to satisfy my craving for... Read more

The Black Mystique – Mandingo

Black Mystique - Mandingo is the third in a short series exploring the underlying psychology of interracial sex as kink - specifically black men and white women. Along the way, I am also trying to unravel how interracial cuckolding evolved as a sexual kink in my own erotic journey. This is a work in progress and will likely undergo several iterations as I try sort through this complex fantasy in my own mind.