When a couple is considering cuckold play, it is important to understand one another’s desires and boundaries. One moment the couple should anticipate with near certainty is that their “Bull” (the other man) will be releasing his creamy load at some point. Where should those creamy ropes of manly essence will be released? What is most desired and what is off limits for the couple? The woman obviously has final say because it is her body. However, she can’t run roughshod over her lover’s feelings either.

Now that I think about it, this seems like a great topic for a juicy poll question.


Note: The poll doesn’t work from the reader, so you’ll need to visit the website version of my blog – The Dionysian Experience. I’ll focus the poll question on what is most desired. The first poll is for male perspective and the second poll is for women.

Whether you are a man or woman, I hope you will participate in the poll, savor the possibilities, and enjoy digesting the results.


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Poll Results and Reflections:

Survey results from over 100 male participants suggest cucks would overwhelmingly prefer that the other man cum inside our girl’s sweet pussy. Why might this be the #1 selection among cucks? One explanation I often hear from cucks flows around the theme of “claiming”. The other man, by pumping his creamy load inside our lover’s pussy, is making the ultimate statement of claiming our woman…at least for one night. Cucks in this mind space may lean towards being submissive and/or enjoy the beta male fantasy – a form of erotic humiliation. An even deeper mind fuck flowing in this same vein is the Wife Breeding fantasy – the ultimate claiming of our woman by a more physically capable man – the Alpha male.

Another erotic layer for men is the biological reaction some men experience known as Sperm Wars which tends to stimulate male sexual competition. Seeing another man cum inside our woman makes our cock harder, generates increased sperm production, and fills us with a burning desire to reclaim our girl. We have the uncontrolled desire to fuck the sperm of the other man out of our woman’s slick, cum-filled channel. The reclaiming is often cited as the highlight of the experience for the couple.

Another potential reason for the popularity of this response is that it sets the stage for a creampie. Some cucks are intensely aroused by the visual of another man’s sperm coating our shaft and serving as a lubricant while we slide in and out of our lover. An even more intense form of arousal can flow from the thought (or actual act) of licking the other man’s cum from our girl’s freshly seeded love tunnel.

How about what our ladies most desire? The results from the 50 or so female participants tend to align with the male survey results. A majority of women (who are open to cuckolding) would want the other man to cum in her pussy. There are some slight variations in responses to other cum-shot locations, but the sample size is too small to make a meaningful assessment.

Based on intimate conversations with former lovers and comments from female readers over the years on this subject, feeling the other man cumming inside her taps into several erotic layers within the female sexual psyche:

  • Sensation of being claimed by the Alpha male
  • Wife breeding (as a fantasy)
  • Sets the stage for the reclaiming experience with her primary lover
  • Satisfying multiple men and having the cum of several men inside her taps into her sexual goddess fantasy 
  • Naughtiness and taboo experience of having her lover licking another man’s cum from her freshly-fucked pussy (a woman may even refer to her pussy as “cunt” while in this sexually frenzied state of mind)

Once upon a time, I had a chance to have this very discussion with a former lover named Sienna. We were early in our relationship and cuckolding was just taking root in our erotic thoughts. Are you curious how a woman falling in love might respond to the thought of having another man’s cum inside or on her? You can read it here – The Other Man’s Cum.

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7 thoughts on “Poll Question: The Other Man’s Cum (2024 Update)

  1. Mmm 🤔!!???


    1. Sexy Nita, what did you vote for? I can see myself on the bed beside you as another man is having his way with you. All the while, I wondering where is he going to cum…where do you want him to cum 🍆💦 Or, maybe your man is on the bed, and I am the man inside you… In that case, as my tempo picks up, I know exactly where I am releasing…

      1. Mmm 😋!!!

        I’m visualizing the latter.

        With you inside me..

        Focusing only on you.. there will be only us in that moment

        And just how good it’s feeling., as I lm begging you for more and pleading for your release…

        And I don’t care where you spray your spunk…
        As long as it’s in me or alll over me..

        Because I will be matching your tempo. And exploding my cum with you… as we reach our ecstatic climax…

        1. Mmmm, Nita! You brought the fire with this one! 🔥 So, you leave it up to me to decide where to release the creamy load you have worked up inside me. After feeling you coming all over my cock, again and again, it would be tough decision for where to cum. I think it would need to be deep inside you as our bodies are pressed tight together…so you can feel me tighten and those deep breaths with each pulse. Plus, I would want you to feel me dripping out of you for hours. 💦

          1. Whoaaa!!!!

            Mmm 😋

            I just got extremely wet and super excited 😜

            With the thoughts 💭 of that most stimulated scenario..

            I say..

            Yes !!!

  2. There is an unconsidered option, in the cuck’s mouth. To suck the bull’s cock and to swallow his cum directly after he has been with your partner tasting her on him is deeply intense. I think even more so then clean-up duty after he has come inside of her.

    1. This is a great point – no argument here. 🔥 I included this option in a similar poll I ran in my Dollhouse Studio site. I asked a group of men (most identify as cuckolds) and about 50% selected the option you mention. The one caveat in that poll was that it allowed for participants to select multiple options, so I don’t know if it was there #1 choice or not.

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