Welcome to another edition of The Cuckold Corner. In addition to my own writings and personal experiences, I hope these interviews help to deepen our understanding of cuckold psychology, highlight the variations found in the kink, and spark interest in the lifestyle. What follows is a discussion I had with KC about his enjoyment of cuckolding. KC’s revelations offer unique insights into the erotic layers sometimes associated with cuckolding and provide a glimpse inside one man’s innermost sexual desires.
Cuckold Corner with KC
Michael – Thanks for your thoughtful engagement around a few of my essays on cuckolding. I appreciate you taking some time to chat with me about your experience in the lifestyle.
KC – Thank you. As a cuckold in a five-year relationship and now engaged to the woman who cuckolds me, I can tell you that many of your posts on cuckolding ring true to me.
Michael – Let’s start with your current relationship. Can you share a little about your fiancé and relationship?
KC – Lena and I are deeply committed to each other emotionally, I treat her with respect, and our relationship is a very loving one. Open and honest communication, trust, and respecting one another’s desires is so important. We are open to exploring one another’s fantasies and even trying some of them. But, if either of us are unhappy with the experience we won’t do it again.
Also, we aren’t looking for anything with other men outside of the bedroom. It’s just about sexual play. We’ve taken breaks too, and this isn’t an all-the-time lifestyle. Sometimes we will go for months without any form of cuckolding in our lives. At other times we are very active and she may fuck multiple men in the course of week’s time.
Michael – The emotional connection and strength of the cuckold couple is often ignored, so I appreciate you setting this essential foundation up front. Couples sometimes struggle with keeping passion’s flame burning over time, and the sharing of sexual fantasies is one way to keep things hot. How was the fantasy introduced into your relationship?
KC – We were in the middle of some pretty hot sex and I asked her to tell me her deepest, darkest fantasy. Her fantasy was for me to restrain her and then bring in another man to fuck her while I watched. I was excited as I had always wanted to watch my woman with another man. We both came so hard after she shared her fantasy. Hearing your lover openly confess to wanting to fuck other men is one thing but actually watching it happen would be another. I wondered if I could handle the “mind-fuck” of actually seeing it happen.
Michael – Whew, that’s pretty intense your girl confesses her ultimate fantasy would be to be bound and fucked by another man. As a cuckold, is pure erotic gold. Lena’s fantasy is intriguing. Aspects of submission, bondage, and the “taken by a stranger” fantasy seem to get her going. Do you see your fiancé as sexually submissive?
🔍 I explore Lena’s combination of sexual fantasies in the post: Fuck Doll – Exploring the Layers.
KC – She never really talked about it or acted submissive with me. Now that I have now watched her with other men, I see how she loves to be dominated and overpowered while being treated roughly, fucked hard, and feeling them cum inside her. She loves showing off for me, being slutty, and dressing up like a whore. It’s surprising to see how VERY sexual she is in these moments.
Michael – It is interesting to see the sexual transformation she goes through with with other men. By allowing and even encouraging her to embrace her sexuality without compromising your relationship, you are providing her with a very special erotic gift.
KC – Thank you. You see, I’ve been cheated on in a previous relationship and there a HUGE difference between someone screwing around behind your back and the cuckolding lifestyle.
Michael – Your callout on the difference between cheating and cuckolding is something women often need to process when first considering cuckold play. A woman may feel like she is cheating on her lover by cuckolding him. This is a cultural norm most of us brought up to believe in. However, as you point out, cuckolding is not “cheating” and is ultimately about the couple’s experience since both of them are turned on by it.
🔍 While not always the case, significant emotional events can sometimes lead people to eroticize something that feels dangerous. In KC’s case, this could be part of the allure with cuckolding. By encouraging his lover to be with another man, he gains control of an outcome he may feel is inevitable and hurtful by eroticizing it. I discuss this a bit in the post Erotic Humiliation.
Michael – Did you harbor this fantasy before your previous lover cheated on you?
KC – Cuckolding has been a long-held fantasy, but the women in my previous relationships had zero interest in being sexually adventurous and wouldn’t even talk about fantasies. Personally, I don’t believe women are biologically designed or meant to have sex with just one man. Having said that, it IS a choice one a woman has control over. In my case, I don’t believe my fiancé would continue with our cuckolding lifestyle if I asked her not to.
Michael – It’s always tough to hear about these situations where one partner in the couple completely shuts down the others sexual fantasies. The couple has to be into together or it simply doesn’t work. Earlier, you described Lena’s fantasy in some detail. Can you tell me about your first cuckold experience?
KC – It was with Lena that I first experienced cuckolding, and we loved it. I restrained her just like she had fantasized about. Our Bull then entered the room and fucked her from behind as I stood by stroking my cock. Watching another man stick his cock inside the woman I love and fuck her had my heart pounding! It was such an unknown space. I could tell she was really enjoying it, and that excited me even more. This became a regular part of our play and we often have amazing sex afterwards.
Michael – Her exhibitionism and your voyeurism seem to be an essential part of your sexual experience as a couple. Are you guys are always together during your cuckold sexual play?
KC – Almost always. It’s important to her that I am present. I think part of this is for safety reasons, but she also wants me to see how much she is enjoying herself and how much other men enjoy fucking her. It’s part of what turns her on about it. Each time she gets fucked, she glances at me to see if I’m hard or stroking my cock. She wants to know I’m enjoying myself.
🔍 These themes appear frequently in cuckold fantasies – especially the eye contact. Also, some cuckolds derive great pleasure in having a “hot wife”. His wife is source of pride – ”She’s so amazing and she’s mine!” It turns the cuck on how hot his lover makes other men and how much they desire her. Compersion is also present. Many cuckold couples (both man and woman) derive great joy in enjoy seeing their lover experiencing pleasure.
Michael – I think this will resonate with a lot of men and women who are curious or fantasize about this lifestyle. What type of man do you guys look for when selecting a bull?
KC – As far as her preference, her biggest thing is that they be well hung. More recently, she exclusively limits our potential candidates to black men.
Michael – Ah, interracial cuckolding – The Black Mystique. What is it about black men that makes this experience even hotter for your wife and perhaps yourself?
KC – Well, it’s just a preference. Being a white couple, I do enjoy the contrast of black and white skin. Plus, she had never had sex with a black men prior to our relationship. She grew up exposed to a lot of racist beliefs running through her family and they would not have approved of her dating black men. She was curious about what it would be like though. With me, she can spread her legs free of judgement for as many black men as she wants within the privacy of our relationship.
🔍 Interracial sex is a distinct sexual kink but is an erotic layer sometimes added to cuckolding. It is important to note that in this type of play, all three people (the hotwife, Bull, and cuck) are aroused by the interracial dynamic. I have a short series called The Black Mystique in which I make a thoughtful attempt to explore the underlying psychological drivers fueling the added eroticism some experience with interracial sex. The Black Mystique is a Dollhouse (my Patreon site) exclusive.
Michael – Sounds like you have had some positive experiences?
KC – Definitely! She absolutely loved her first big black cock! I mean she went wild! She rode his cock and orgasmed like no tomorrow. I loved the contrast of seeing his large, dark cock going in her pussy. After a few experiences, she decided she only wanted black men for our cuckold play. She recently confided that she has now had more sex with black men than white men in her life.
Michael – That is a very hot statement for her to make.
KC – Yeah, she has gotten into it!
Michael – You mentioned that your wife is submissive with her Bulls. Are you guys into her dominating you or humiliation play?
KC – I wouldn’t say that femdom is in our relationship. We don’t experience humiliation like you see in some cuckold stories where she is explicitly speaking to me in a negative way. It is more indirect I suppose. She doesn’t tell me I have a small cock even though I’m below average. Instead, she will tell him how much she has been thinking about him and wanting HIS big cock. It is humiliating watching your woman being fucked by another man – moaning, screaming, and coming on his bigger cock – and absolutely loving it! All the while, I know he is pleasuring her in ways I can’t. Afterwards, when I am eating his cum from her pussy, she will tell me how much she loves his big cock. It is humiliating yet so very hot! I am totally okay with this…it works for US.
🔍 Erotic humiliation is a form of psychological masochism (the “M” in BDSM). I break down the nuances of Femdom, humiliation play, and cuckolding as distinct sexual fetishes in posts: Cuckolding vs. Femdom and Erotic Humiliation. These fetishes can exist independently but are often intertwined in male cuckold fantasies. KC enjoys cuckolding and humiliation but not Femdom.
Michael – I imagine a lot of cuckolds will identify with how you and Lena experience cuckolding. This is very close to type of cuckold play I most enjoy as well. Is there anything else you would like to share?
KC – Yes, I LOVE creampies! Eventually, I got into fucking her after they came inside her. I became so addicted to that feeling. The lube of another man’s cum and the feeling of it was insane. I especially love going down on her after another man has cum inside her. It is VERYYY humiliating but incredibly exciting!
Michael – Getting sloppy seconds after another man has stretched your girl’s pussy and shot a big, creamy load inside her is a capstone moment for many cuckolds, myself included.
🔍 The “creampie” is another experience that is frequently mentioned in cuckolding. This act has a spectrum for how it is experienced. At one end, it is simply experienced as part of the sexual experience. This might be especially true for men that consider themselves bisexual. At the other end of the spectrum, it is experienced as a form erotic humiliation. This is typically experienced by men who do not consider themselves bisexual. As a straight man, eating another man’s cum can be an act of submission and definitely a form of erotic humiliation. I share a personal experience of this in the post Amber’s Creampie.
KC – One more thing. People often ask me about jealousy. Am I jealous when she is being fucked and enjoying it? I wouldn’t call it jealousy. It feels more like envy. I’m envious that I don’t have such a huge, hard cock. But, at the same time, when it’s all over, he will be the one leaving and she chooses to be with me.
Michael – Well said, my friend. In the end the journey belongs to you and your lover. Love is the ultimate power of the cuckold.
- Cuckold Corner – The Interviews: List and brief description of interviews with men and women that enjoy cuckolding
- Cuckold Psychology – The Essentials: Join me for an exploration of the psychological layers driving the cuckold fantasy
- Sensual Shadows – Index: My loving, erotic journey into cuckolding with Sienna.