If you are a man or woman that enjoys cuckolding (couple where woman occasionally sleeps with other men), understanding one another’s desire and boundaries is important. When it comes to cuckolding, one moment we should anticipate is near certainty is our “Bull” (the other man) releasing his heavy load. The question though, is where should those creamy ropes of manly essence be deposited or at least what is most desired and what is off limits.
This seems like a great topic for a juicy poll question. The poll doesn’t work from the reader, so you’ll need to visit the website version of my blog – The Dionysian Experience. I’ll focus the poll question on what is most desired. The first poll is for male perspective and the second poll is for women. Whether you are a man or woman, I hope you enjoy looking at the results, pondering the possibilities, and sharing your thoughts in the comments.
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Once upon a time, I had a chance to have this very discussion with a former lover named Sienna. We were early in our relationship and cuckolding was just taking root in our erotic thoughts. Are you curious how a woman falling in love might respond to the thought of having another man’s cum inside or on her? You can read it here – The Other Man’s Cum.
Early Poll Result Reflections:
Early results from the male perspective suggest we would most like for the other man to cum inside our girl’s sweet pussy. Why might this be the favorite? I have a couple theories but please feel free to share your own in the comments. One explanation I often hear is that the other man, by pumping his creamy load inside our lover’s pussy, is making the ultimate statement of claiming her…at least for one night. This in itself is hot for most cuckolds, but there can be additional erotic layers at play.
One erotic layer is the biological reaction we experience known as Sperm Wars which stimulates male competition. Seeing another man cum inside our woman makes our cock harder, generates increased sperm production, and a burning desire to reclaim her. It may also tap into the Wife Breeding fantasy. Another potential reason for the popularity of this response is that it sets the stage for a creampie. “Some” cuckolds are aroused by the thought (or actual act) of licking another man’s cum from our girl’s freshly seeded love channel. Or, to a lesser degree, the visual seeing another man’s sperm coating our shaft as we slide inside our lover.
Suggested Readings:
- Sensual Shadows Chronology & Links: Brief descriptions and links to my loving, erotic journey with Sienna
- Cuckold Psychology – The Essentials: Brief descriptions and links to key essays exploring the underlying psychological drivers of the cuckold fantasy.
- Cock Size and Preference Poll – Ladies and gentlemen, I asked and you answered. Check out the results and participate.
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Sexy Nita, what did you vote for? I can see myself on the bed beside you as another man is having his way with you. All the while, I wondering where is he going to cum…where do you want him to cum šš¦ Or, maybe your man is on the bed, and I am the man inside you… In that case, as my tempo picks up, I know exactly where I am releasing…
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Iām visualizing the latter.
With you inside me..
Focusing only on you.. there will be only us in that moment
And just how good itās feeling., as I lm begging you for more and pleading for your releaseā¦
And I donāt care where you spray your spunkā¦
As long as itās in me or alll over me..
Because I will be matching your tempo. And exploding my cum with youā¦ as we reach our ecstatic climaxā¦
Mmmm, Nita! You brought the fire with this one! š„ So, you leave it up to me to decide where to release the creamy load you have worked up inside me. After feeling you coming all over my cock, again and again, it would be tough decision for where to cum. I think it would need to be deep inside you as our bodies are pressed tight together…so you can feel me tighten and those deep breaths with each pulse. Plus, I would want you to feel me dripping out of you for hours. š¦
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With the thoughts š of that most stimulated scenario..
I say..
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There is an unconsidered option, in the cuck’s mouth. To suck the bull’s cock and to swallow his cum directly after he has been with your partner tasting her on him is deeply intense. I think even more so then clean-up duty after he has come inside of her.
This is a great point – no argument here. š„ I included this option in a similar poll I ran in my Dollhouse Studio site. I asked a group of men (most identify as cuckolds) and about 50% selected the option you mention. The one caveat in that poll was that it allowed for participants to select multiple options, so I don’t know if it was there #1 choice or not.