Digital Art II (BDSM)

This is my first digital art gallery devoted to BDSM and offers a glimpse into a few upcoming BDSM-focused stories and art scenes coming this year. BDSM is a realm I’ve been exploring a bit more in recent years. A big part of the attraction for me is the mind play involved and the importance of the mind fuck in the overall sexual experience.

Naughty Girl

I humbly admit that as a Dom I am more at the apprentice level as a practitioner…but a highly attentive student. I appreciate the responsibilities that come with being a woman’s dominant and the need for authenticity and consistency. BDSM is a vast umbrella term covering many kinks and one of those kinks is discipline. One particular form of discipline I especially enjoy administering is pussy spanking. Not all girls want or need this form of discipline…only the very naughty ones. Sure, I want my girl running hot, but I can’t have her running completely wild. She has realize there are consequences for her decadent behavior. A firm pussy spanking often leaves a memorable impression.

Inspection

Any good Dom will ensure his submissive is properly grooming herself and a proper inspection is always in order and another personal favorite of mine. This particular desire may stem from my time in the military and the many times I spent performing uniform inspections. Obviously, this is a much more rewarding type of inspection.

Key points of inspection include makeup with special attention to her eyes. Eye shadow, eye liner, and attention to lashes and brows are a must to pass the inspection. Skin should feel soft and moisturized. Nails should be well attended and all body haired removed – shaved or waxed. I also expect my girl’s tight space to be waxed because it is going to get a lot of attention, and I will closely inspect her most private zone. As an added bonus, there is something extra hot about a clothed male, nude female (CMNF) scene that will get the juices flowing for many women.

Orgasm Denial/Chastity

Orgasm denial is another juicy mind fuck that I enjoy whether I am overseeing a woman’s denial or being on the receiving end. The gist of this experience is that the one being denied must have the permission of their dominant to cum. Giving another person control of your orgasms is an act of submission and, because it may feel like punishment, could be form of masochism. If chastity devices are used it can also be a form of bondage.

Not being able to cum as you wish may not seem that exciting at first glance. However, for those that authentically experience this denial, it is incredibly exciting. It arouses the submissive to know another person controls them. The arousal becomes more intense the longer a person is denied. They experience periods of excitement with no release followed by additional periods of stimulation and still no release. The submissive’s desire to cum becomes stronger and stronger. In turn, they often become more submissive, compliant, and attentive to their dominant as the desperation to earn permission to cum intensifies.  

Freedom In Submission

Most of us have at time likely felt sexually inhibited. There are a lot of societal reasons for this that I will explore in other posts. It seems to me that many women are, ironically, able to find freedom in submission. As a submissive, a woman may have experiences she might not normally do on her own for fear of being judged by others or even herself.

Being a submissive alters her thought process. She surrenders control to her dominant as he pushes and encourages her to explore sexual boundaries and tests her limits. As a submissive, she is able to experience these new levels of sexual pleasure because she does it to please her Sir. The mind fuck associated with submission itself is exciting and, when coupled with her newfound sexual liberation, can lead to transcendent experiences.

Becca, the model above, is inspired by the talented writer of Romance With Steam and very naughty Robecca Austin. You will see her images and sexy stories appearing throughout my blog this year. The first one, a cuckold story, is available here: Built for Pleasure.

While expanding my BDSM horizons, I’ve come to appreciate that I’ve actually been a longtime participant in BDSM through cuckolding. I’m still learning my craft as a dominant but can say with humility, I am highly advanced in cuckold play and a good teacher for women wanting to explore this kink. I know the multitude of layers flowing through cuckolding and am able to introduce women into the lifestyle in a way that makes it hot for them and for us as a sexually adventurous couple.

The Dominant Cuckold

Dom and cuckold are two terms we rarely see used to describe one man. Maybe I shouldn’t either. It does strike me as intriguing though how many Doms are turned on by watching their submissive with other men. A lot of reasons are given to explain why this is hot for them, but admitting they like being cuckolded isn’t one of them. I believe this comes from the common misperception that if a man enjoys cuckolding, it means he is submissive.

Erotic Humiliation or Compersion – Maybe Both

Watching my lover have sex with another man fills me with a range of emotions…often during the same play date. On one hand, I love seeing my girl experience immense pleasure…even (perhaps especially) if it comes from the cock of another man. The more pleasure she feels, the more enjoyment I experience. On the other hand, if the other man is taking her to even higher levels of physical pleasure than I am capable of providing, I do feel some degree of erotic humiliation. It is “erotic” humiliation because the rush I feel is intensely arousing rather than hurtful. The erotic humiliation I experience in cuckold play is a form of psychological masochism – the “M” in BDSM.

The experience for a woman in this scenario all depends on her state of mind and the dynamics of her primary relationship. She may experience this as a form of submission (to her lover or to her Bull). In some cases, a woman may feel she is the dominant (Femdom) in this experience and/or the sadist – the one delivering the erotic humiliation. Or, she may experience no sense of power play at all. Regardless, the ultimate goal is that she experience immense sexual pleasure.

You Lose (Now Bend Over)

I imagine there are a few women have fantasized about strapping on a cock and slipping it inside her man’s forbidden passage…feeling him moan and squirm beneath her as she gives him every inch of her love. Unlike many cuckolds, this wouldn’t rate high on my list of desires. However, if a woman was particularly turned on by this, she might be able to open up my mind to the experience…while opening other areas.

Hope you enjoyed this BDSM gallery and sampling of stories and art coming soon to the Dionysian Experience. Do you have a favorite kink expressed in one of these images? Is there a particular scene you would like me to potentially explore in a digital art gallery? The comment box is open and ready to receive your juicy offering.

Suggested Readings:

• Fuck Doll – Exploring the Layers: An exploration of why some women are drawn to the fuck doll fantasy
• Cuckold Psychology – The Essentials: An index with brief descriptions and links to essays exploring this lifestyle kink
• Visual Arts: This link takes you to the visual arts category (art and videos) where you can browse the galleries

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