Digital Art: Pink Submission (Don’t Make Me Ask Twice)

Pink Submission first emerged as a themed gallery on my site about 5 years ago. At the time, I didn’t fully appreciate why title felt so right, I just knew it felt perfect. Artwork for this 2022 edition has evolved, but Pink Submission still resonates as unifying gallery title. Before sinking deeper into the pink, it is worth noting that this blog – The Dionysian Experience – is a journey for deeper meaning and understanding. My overall charter is to better understand my past and sexual fantasies in order to shape a more purposeful and informed future. Along the way, I hope some of the themes flowing through my posts resonate with your own journey of discovery.

Pink Submission is not only about the art but also the meaning behind it. I’ll begin this exploration by looking at the inclusion of “Submission” in the title. No surprise, it was included a nod to the allure of BDSM play in my sexuality. However, BDSM is a HUGE umbrella term that encompasses so many varied kinks. I do enjoy submissive women and will speak to this later. My favorite aspect of BDSM is probably power play and psychological masochism – the mind fuck. Specifically, I enjoy my own erotic humiliation – a form of psychological masochism. I also enjoy providing this for my lover if she is into it. Primarily, I experience the erotic rush of humiliation play through cuckolding and small penis teasing. I look closer at this desire in Exploring the Layers – Erotic Humiliation.

Most men that enjoy cuckolding and small penis teasing tend to be on the more submissive side in power play, but the power flow dynamic is a little clouded for me. In life, I’m generally more dominant and tend to lead…and this extends to the bedroom (even when cuckolded). While my girl’s craving for another man’s bigger cock may be very real, her desire flows around physical pleasure more so than dominating me. She experiences the freedom to openly express her physical desires within the emotional safety and sensual space of our loving relationship. Our love is a powerful force in her life and mine. She has no interest in replacing me with another man, except occasionally between her legs. She seeks this added pleasure for herself and also because it pleases me.

The one notable exception in my power flow balance is that I do find it exciting to when a woman takes control of my cock. This could include my requirement to wear a cock cage to prevent erections and orgasms or my commitment to her that I won’t cum without her permission. Even these submissive behaviors are primarily driven by my fondness of erotic humiliation and accepted as a form of small penis teasing. Balancing my hardwired disposition to lead with the desire to be cuckolded and experience small penis teasing has always been a challenge. I believe it is the cognitive dissonance/tension between these two desires – alpha vs. cuckold – that fuels my erotic rush.

Despite my need to be in charge, disciplining a woman (in sexual play) can feel off for me at times. I mean, I can spank a woman’s ass and give her the belt with the best of them. However, doing this to a woman isn’t intrinsically arousing. Hurting and marking her flesh doesn’t make my dick hard – when doing it or just thinking about it. At my core, I am a sensual man. Everything else flows from this essential core of sensual energy. If I know my lover craves discipline (like I crave cuckolding), then I will absolutely administer this discipline with the utmost conviction, but my pleasure will come from her pleasure.

The one thing I need to administer discipline is a reason. Men that are sadists will find pleasure in acts commonly associated with Dom behavior. The acts, such a giving his sub the crop, are intrinsically arousing to him…and also to his sub. This isn’t enough for me, I need a reason. I think this is why I feel more comfortable with the notion of being a Daddy vs. a Dom. I discipline my girl because I love her and only when she deserves it, not because it pleases me. Most often, I experience this drive for discipline when my lover expresses her desire to fuck other men…men with bigger cocks. It makes me so damn hot but she needs to be punished for being such a naughty girl! I want her to have more physical pleasure, but she has to know there is a price to pay…with a reddened ass and pussy. One of my favorite forms of discipline to spank my girl’s naughty pink pussy!

And, if she happens to find some decadent pleasure in these teaching moments, I will certainly find pleasure in her pleasure…and her submission.

My feelings around power play have been subconsciously infused within my art, mostly with pink hues. When juxtaposed against “submission”, pink softens the harshness of BDSM and adds a touch of sensuality into experience. Of course, pink is also associated with and sometimes used as a synonym for pussy. The thought of a woman submitting and surrendering control of her pussy and sexual pleasure is something I find increasingly arousing to think about.

Pink Submission…

…doesn’t necessarily mean there is literally pink in the image. It more about the drive for sensuality and beauty in what might otherwise be a harsh scene.

Pink Submission flows well within the Naughty Angel archetype too. Women that embody this archetypal energy are, in their core, sweet sensual girls. But, they also have very naughty desires. Their internal struggle between two opposing forces of energy keeps them in a divine state of erotic tension and makes their naughty moments even hotter.

However, like any good girl that has been naughty, she will need to be disciplined – a pleasant and arousing reminder that being naughty comes with consequences. She needs this to keep in touch with her inner “good girl”.

Are you a good girl? Have you been naughty? I see. Now, pull down your panties. Bend over the bed like a good girl, and present your ass and pretty pink pussy to Daddy. Don’t make me ask twice.

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