I share this story with some trepidation. The revelation I am about to make feels a little embarrassing, but it is also extremely arousing to share. There is no doubt that the subject matter is of great interest – it has become one of my most viewed posts. Its popularity only increases the cognitive dissonance/angst I experience knowing others are reading. While I highly value the reaction of men to this topic, I primarily write as though I am writing to women. How women will react to what I share is the great unknown. That said, here we go…
The exploration of sexual fantasies between lovers requires an understanding one another’s erotic buttons, knowing limits, and establishing boundaries. This shared understanding was top of mind as Sienna and I shared a loving, erotic journey into cuckolding (her sleeping with another man). This shared understanding of boundaries was important to me because long after the other man had completed his stud servicing of my girl, the experience would remain part of our shared history. Discussing expectations, anticipating moments, and setting boundaries goes a long way towards ensuring the reality of the experience ends up being a hot rather than hurtful memory.
One moment we can certainly anticipate in any cuckold experience is that the couple’s Bull (the other man) is going to cum. This near certain event raises some obvious questions for the couple to discuss. Are there any places the couple feels should be off limits for the other male’s cum? For example, a woman may not want the other man to cum on her face, in her mouth, or in her hair. Or, she may not feel comfortable with her Bull coming inside her. The man being cuckolded may have reservations as well about what he is comfortable with his lover doing with another man.
There are also potential scenarios where the cuckold may come in contact with the other man’s cum. This could include the cuckold’s cock entering his lover’s cum-filled pussy or may involve the cuckold licking the other man’s cum from his lover’s pussy. How does the couple feel about this? Do they find it arousing or not? If so, how far does that contact go?
At this point in relationship, the question of whether or not Sienna wanted to experience a more endowed man had been answered – she was craving another man’s larger cock. Moving closer to making this a reality, I wanted to better understand her boundaries. Where did she want her Bull to cum? How does she feel about me potentially licking his cum from her pussy (a fantasy of mine)? Having a discussion with woman I love about another man coming on or inside her was going to be breathtakingly intense. And, broaching the topic of me eating another man’s cum from her well-fucked pussy (also known as a creampie) had me overflowing with excitement…and angst.
My plan was to bring up a WordPress article and comment thread on this very topic – men tasting their own cum or the cum of other men. This would give me a chance to gauge Sienna’s reaction. If it wasn’t hot for her, I could bail out on the idea before sharing my desires. Sienna and I were chatting one day when the opportunity to make a seamless transition to the article and comments presented itself. Sienna was curious and wanted to hear more about it.
I grouped the reactions into three buckets and provided a high-level view for her consideration. Some men enjoy tasting cum (their own or from other men) as a natural part of the sexual experience without any form of mental or power play. Other men find it exciting when framed as a submissive act and/or a form of erotic humiliation when eating their own seed or the cum of other men. The third group wants no part of it. I was eager to see how she would respond, but she hesitated. Instead, she asked how I felt about it. Damn, my great plan failed.
This was a tough moment as the chessboard in my mind played out. Sienna might find this entire discussion entirely unpleasant to think about but, knowing her, she would at least be open to my desires. Alternatively, Sienna might be soaking wet at thought of me licking another man’s cum from her well-fucked pussy but, not knowing how I feel, is hesitant to admit it because she doesn’t want to offend me. Part of her hesitation could also stem from her desire to be submissive to me. While we both want to make cuckolding a reality in our relationship, we aren’t really into the Femdom (dominant female/female led) layers often associated with cuckolding. In fact, she is actually quite submissive and thinks of me as her Sir/Daddy.
To gain insight into how a submissive woman can successfully engage in cuckolding, please check out Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective.
While I lean towards being dominant, I also enjoy a dash of erotic humiliation. I explore the psychology behind this in Erotic Humiliation – Exploring the Layers. A big part of my erotic humiliation experience is for my lover to tease me about having a little cock and her desire to occasionally experience another man’s larger, more physically fulfilling manhood. She loves me and my cock but sometimes just needs a little more.
The thought of licking another man’s cum from her pussy is an extension of my erotic humiliation. The other man gave her more than I am physically capable of providing, and I acknowledge my position in the sexual hierarchy by licking his cum from her pussy. There is a flip side to my experience though that elicits a more dominant reaction. My lover’s desire and openness to all of this is incredibly and undeniable naughty behavior. Such behavior absolutely requires discipline – preferably by me spanking and fucking the hell out of her for being so naughty – my naughty girl. This is part of the “reclaiming” that many cuckold couples often enjoy. In fact, it is often the most erotically intense part of the couple’s experience.
As I begin to answer Sienna’s question about how I feel about it, I remind her how she enjoys licking and sucking her juices off my cock and how naughty it makes her feel. She agrees and can see how a man might feel a similar sense of naughtiness when tasting his own cum. She presses me further, “How do YOU feel about it?” I flash back in time and describe a couple moments when I have I’ve gone down on her after coming inside her and enjoyed it. Tasting my own cum is one thing, tasting another man’s seed is a very different experience.
I ease deeper into our cum-filled discussion by diverting the current line of focus in search of other answers. At this point, I’m not sure if she even wants to the other man to cum inside her. If she doesn’t want this to happen, admitting my desire to lick his cum from her pussy seems pointless. I move one piece on the mental chessboard to gauge her reaction. “Baby, the thought of slipping my cock inside you and feeling it coated with another man’s cum would be such an erotic sensation. What do you think about that? Where would you want the other man to cum? Are there any places that work against your desires?”
Mmmm Sweetheart, I like the thought of him coming inside me too…especially you taking me after a big man has filled me with his creamy load. As for my mouth, I love the taste of your cum and love when you cum in my mouth. Baby, it is such a personal experience for me to have you this way. But, just like I wouldn’t want to kiss another man, I wouldn’t want his cum in my mouth. It is much too personal and something I only want to share with you.
At this point in our journey, Sienna has been consistent about not wanting to kiss the other man. She reinforces this today and adds that she wouldn’t want him to cum in her mouth. Personally, neither of these acts would bother me, but they are intimate boundaries for her. Even though she finds the idea of fucking other men exciting, there are some things she only wants to experience with me. Knowing Sienna likes the thought of another man releasing inside her, the possibility of experiencing a creampie is still in play. Now it is time for the money shot. I confess that I do find it exciting to think about another man coming inside her and…licking his cum from her sweet, little pussy.
One vision I have of this moment is of Sienna straddling my face after her Bull has emptied himself insider her. Her lips are flushed and swollen from having another man’s big cock inside her. His scent is very present as I begin to lick her pussy. Soon, his cum is covering my lips, spilling on my chin, and coating my tongue. My cock is rock hard as I work my tongue deeper and deeper inside my girl’s cum-filled pussy. She finds pleasure in seeing and feeling my arousal as I clearly demonstrate my acceptance of what has happened in a way she never imagined possible.
Wow, that is a hot, crazy thought!!! For me to fuck a man I don’t even know is so out of character. My desire to fuck a man just because he has a big cock is something I would have never done before meeting you. Now, for all of this to be encouraged by the man I love and for it to happen in front of you is crazy hot! Then, for you to lick another man’s cum from my pussy is such a crazy good mind fuck! It’s such an epic “wrong” in my head but it makes me so wet! This is an incredible gift you have given to me. I can’t even get my mind around you licking my pussy after another man has filled me with his seed. It is crazy hot, Baby!
Much to my delight (even surprise), Sienna finds it incredibly exciting to think about me eating another man’s cum from her freshly-fucked pussy. She even characterizes the entire experience as an “incredible gift” I am providing for her. It is a deliciously erotic moment to have the woman I love reveal her desire to fuck another man in front of me as a “gift”. And, to know it makes her wet thinking about me performing clean-up duties takes it another level. It is so exciting to be a driving force of energy behind her sexual liberation, and her openness to sexual exploration within our relationship fills me with such wild lust for her.
With the matter of sloppy seconds addressed, I ask Sienna if there are other places she would be excited to feel her Bull cum when we fulfill our fantasy?
Except for my mouth and ass, which will always be Yours alone, you can share me as you wish. You can tell him to empty his creamy load on my face and neck so you can run your hands through it as you fuck me hard afterwards. You can have him cum in my hair which I work so hard on to be pretty for you. He can cum on my tits, and then I will rub your little cock in his cum. I know that will be hot for you! He can pump his cream out on the lower part of my back so it runs down the crack of my ass and open lips. Or, if you want, he can plant his seed deep in my pussy. It’s up to you, Sir. However you want to see your girl taken—just not in my mouth or ass. I only want Daddy’s sweet little cock in my ass. Mmm, I sooo want and need your cock in my ass! Rub your hands all over it and spank me as you penetrate me slow and deep. I need you to have me this way. Daddy, your girl is really needing it!
Sienna shares a list of steamy places (other than her mouth) where she would like the other man to cum. Most are the same places she loves for me to cum too. Sienna does remind me of another boundary for her Bull – no anal. Like her other boundaries, I personally have no reservation against this but respect her desires. As our conversation comes to a very satisfying ending, I feel like I understand her boundaries more clearly and have also ensured that my sexy little girl has thought ahead about what she does and doesn’t want to experience.
Our conversation was over but lingered in her thoughts throughout the day.
Sweetheart!!!! Wow, that was such a hot talk today!!!! I was very weak in the knees when you shared your fantasy in that low sexy voice of yours!!!! Babe… As soon as your voice drops down into that lower octave and you get quieter and that sexy Mmmmm so yummy tone hits me…. F F F! I’m aching and arching for you!!!! Arching to stick my ass out a little more and expose my open wet petals below. I’m still so overcome with that “weak-kneed” feeling!!!! 😊 Baby, whatever happens and however things evolve…just know that our fantasies are “our” fantasies and expectations are only about what WE can control! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💜💜 I love you and can’t wait to see you next week!
Suggested Reading:
- Cuckold Psychology: The Essentials – My core set of posts exploring the erotic layers of cuckolding
- Sensual Shadows: Chronology – Index with brief descriptions and links to my loving, erotic journey with Sienna
I possibly have a fetish when it comes to cum (heh). I like it. A lot. I like the thought of where it goes and how it moves and how it tastes. I love the thought of a man who is free enough to lick his own cum from his lover’s mouth or pussy. The thought of him licking another man’s cum from his lover’s pussy just puts it over the top in hotness. Maybe because the thought of two men together is hot or it’s just the sexuality free from limits that I like or possibly because the visual is so arousing- dripping cum. I just have always found it hot. Ha, I suppose that’s not the point of your post. 😁 I think it’s great to be able to have these discussions about both desire and boundaries. And you seem very thoughtful when it comes to her needs. I would love to read the links but this has been a pleasant packing break and now I must get back to it! 😘
Oh Lila, you definitely captured the essence of this post (imagining you capturing it in your sexy lips)…. 💦💋 I should probably actually ask the question in the post but I am curious how other women and men feel about this topic. You have certainly left a comment that has me dizzy with arousal imagining being in a scenario like this with you.🔥😈 I’m glad you enjoyed your packing break…you will be missed😔 Damn, just read your comment again…so F’n hot!🍆🔥🔥🔥 I’m simply fascinated by a woman being so turned on by a man licking another man’s cum from her pussy, mmmm!😘
It’s such a hot scenario to me. The few times it’s happened to me (with his own cum) the thought of it is almost as good as the actual tongue. I might be a freak though. 😝😈 I’ll miss you guys too, but maybe I’ll post a pic from the beach. 😀👙🌊
My husband ALWAYS has to clean me up after my boyfriend has ejaculated inside me. In the beginning he didn’t like it at all. We both consider it an indispensable part of our cuckolding relationship. My husband submits and accepts the facts of his life. Another male has access to his wife’s pussy and is allowed to ejaculate in his wife. That is never going to change. It’s also an amazing way for us to bond with each other after I have had very intense sex with another man. My husband and I love each other very much when he eats me out. We hold each other’s hands and he always tells me how much he loves me. Our spiritual connection is so very deep that we both feel that we cease to exist as two separate individuals. Instead we feel that we become one soul. As you can imagine, we’re never going to give up creampie eating. It has become part of who we are and a strong symbol of our love for one another.
Whew, I LOVE this comment…totally pushes my erotic hot buttons! 🔥🔥🔥I love the way you brought it back to you and Hans. It is an intense moment to be looking in your lover’s eyes as you kiss with the scent of remnants of another man’s sperms all over your lips… This is something Sienna and I were potentially moving towards.
M that is it exactly
I had quite an amazing experience where my husband licked the cum of another man out of my pussy. it was anything from a cuckolding experience for us as he is not into that but was still erotic and a turn on none the less.
Sexy girl, I’m fascinated by this comment on several levels. I’m trying to imagine a scenario where a man licks another man’s cum from his wife’s pussy…but he hasn’t been cuckolded. You know, all the other stuff about humiliation, male submission, etc is all just other kinks added to cuckolding. Does he express any level of excitement around you being with another man? Also, why don’t you share some of these hot stories you drop clues about?! 😀
You know it was something he mentioned that he’d thought about before and I don’t remember the exact details of the conversation but basically it was, *if the opportunity ever presents it self than go for it* and it did. and then he did. 😛
Yes, he’s expressed interest with me being with another man and it’s something we did but afterwards was difficult for him. Although I got a lot out of it, I think it will have to stay in the fantasy realm from now on unless its him that wants to give it another go.
And ya know, I’m not sure why I haven’t written about it. I’ve actually had some really amazing experiences in the past year but for some reason haven’t felt the need to document them like I used to in my past life. Never say never though… xo
Mmmm, I bet that was so hot for you to have him do that. I’ve always been fascinated by what a woman feels and thinks about in that moment…like what is that makes her hot? Of course, I know what most men feel about it but women don’t seem as open about sharing their hot buttons. As for sharing your naughty escapades, I guess it will happen when and if it feels right again. I couldn’t get away that though since my blog is a sex blog, ha! Well, maybe a little psychology and art. But, I know my niche. 😈😇
what is it that makes her/me hot? seeing my partner turned on, turns me on, seeing them or hearing them experience pleasure gives me pleasure. it’s as simple as that. for me. 🙂
Makes complete sense, you are such a special woman and so giving…always concerned about others and their happiness and pleasure.😘💖This whole idea of licking another man’s cum is such a turn on within cuckold play…wish more women were as open minded as you. Hope you’re having a wonderful week😘
It’s beautiful and very intimate.
While I don’t know if I could watch another man take my lady, I find the idea quite arousing. Seeing her dripping with another man’s cum, does inspire an errection or two.
Nothing wrong with keeping it in the fantasy realm. It took me over 10 years of savoring the fantasy before making the move to reality. Hope to have a few more posts out soon on this blog. Have a great weekend
My husband doesn’t need any Viagra when he sees that.
My husband was afraid in the beginning. Now he loves it!
Michael,
I am more set on enjoying my own cum inside of her. It has been and will be extremely erotic to see, smell and taste my semen inside of my wife. In the deep recesses of my eros, I have visualized another man’s semen inside of her…especially when I have already cum multiple times inside of her and to re-enter for more sets that side of me alight.
Thank you for taking a moment to read this and share your reaction. I just read one of your posts (will read more in time) and your desire to taste your own cum does come through. It seems natural to me just as a woman taste herself when she gives us oral after sex. As for your feelings on tasting another man inside her, I certainly get that one.
wierd stuff
Sexual fetish. If it was seen as “normal” then it wouldn’t be a fetish. Thanks for the “like” though on this and several other posts.
u r welcome!!
This one left me speechless. And no, that’s not a bad thing🙈😄
Cinnamon Girl, this is a rather hot conversation, right? Can you imagine whispering to the man who loves you about where you want to feel another man cum? It was really hot in the moment and still today just reading it. Glad you enjoyed it and hope your loss of speech was due to other reasons flowing below…🔥
Mmm yes indeed I enjoyed it. And pulsating below😄🙈
So sweet and naughty…of course you have me imagining having that conversation with you right now and you share your boundaries for the other man… 💦☺️
:)))))))))))
Yes, I liked her reaction 🔥
Sir Michael, as you have probably noticed, I am still very young and have not experienced so much sexually and this is one of the things I have read about but never really indulged in. I have explored the idea in my previous blog, the idea of the man I am with sharing me with another that we both trust – a threesome basically. I have fantasies about so many aspects of the whole scenario and now reading this, I am instantaneously aroused by the idea of a man licking his cum from me. I never really thought I had a ‘cum’ fetish. But this made me feel a certain way. 🔥💦 I think I will stop reading your blog for today cause I am at work and soaked. If I continue reading, my co-workers will have a silly story to tell lol. But tomorrow I will continue to catch up. Besides I hate spamming you, but I just love reading your work. You make me yearn for so much in life sexually cause of all the knowledge and experiences you share with us.
Mmmm, I LOVE the thought of you being wet and soaked 🔥Your reaction to this somewhat embracing revelation of mine, has me achingly hard right now. You mention being turned on by the thought a man licking his own cum from you. That would be hot when he shares it with you in a kiss. How would you feel about your man licking another man’s cum from you? This is a question I was trying to get Sienna to think about. The thought of it excites me… Samantha, thanks for spending some time with my posts…so glad you enjoyed them. I will never ever feel like you are spamming me. Every reaction you share is a special gift that I appreciate and cherish 😘
I don’t know how would feel about it. The idea of it is interesting though. I have been busy lately sir Michael but I will be reading a lot on Sienna 😊
Having a man lick cum from you is truly AWESOME!
Christina
I still want and NEED to experience this. I am slowly building up going bareback with my Bull and I think that my sweet Cuck would love the humiliation. I find this so erotic. My Cuck says he would do anything, so let’s take it to the test ;).
It’s EROTIC beyond belief. And your cuck is going to LOVE it once he gets used to it.
Christina
Thanks so much for this super hot comment…sorry I missed it in my absence. I love this a form of humiliation. 🔥It makes it even hotter knowing a woman (you in this case) finds the thought hot too. 😈 I’ve often wondered if women find the thought of their lover licking up another man’s cum. Seems you and Sienna share a similar desire 💦👅
My wife and I both like men to cum inside of her. Sometimes I will add my load to the other man’s cum, as I enjoy the lubrication of the other guy’s cum on my cock, but either way, I have no hesitation to lick her clean. Sometimes I lay where I have easy access, and when the man is ready to cum, he puts his cock in my mouth to swallow until he is done shooting his load. My wife doesn’t like anal either, but I do, and if one of the guys want anal they fuck me. She loves to watch a cock going in and out of me as much as I do to experience it.
Thanks so much for the great comment, RIC! Comments like yours really add to the discussion and give readers some hot, erotic variety in how men and women experience this lifestyle. The act of one man licking another man’s cum from his lover’s pussy is a hot subject…as well as the man performing oral on the other man, and anal. Do you experience this as a form of erotic humiliation or is it free of humiliation and just something you like as a pure sexual experience?
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Hello Michael. You’re a subscriber to my blog and I am here in stealth because a friend of mine needs an erotica writer who can write stories that drench pussy for days. Can you get in touch please?
Dang these beautiful women you draw for your blog. I need to go to church so I can be sanctified. Don’t think I could ever even confess this to my priest. I’m such a dirty, dirty girl. You make me think these things. It is like a drug and I can’t say no.
You are the most open-minded person I know. Is why I recommended you to my friend for podcast writing gig. Please consider it.
And now that I’m here incognito 🤫
I want to tell you how much of cum hungry slut I am. I didn’t even know that cum fetish was a thing. Get turned on just thinking about loads of it. My last boyfriend, was a famous rugby coach and he would just save it up so I would get his full loads. He loved it when I shrieked in surprise at the handfuls that came out every time he exploded inside me. I would force him not to touch himself until we could meet and he could make his manly deliveries.
There are very few men worthy of honouring my inner goddess in this way.
(Tosses hair)
(Awaits reply)
(Is wet)
Naughty, naughty “Cellie”, I feel like you stepped away from the prim and proper world of Apollo and have ventured into the forest to confess your decadent desires in this Dionysian sanctuary. Your erotic energy is always welcome here, sexy girl…even more so for cum-hungry sluts 🍆💦👅😈💫 Your naughty confession left me breathless in the best way. 🔥🔥 I’m genuinely flattered that you enjoy my art and intrigued by your offer. I don’t know who you are though or your blog. Maybe you could pick a post deep in my archives and leave a clue? If not, I still appreciate you stopping by and sharing your reaction…even if anonymous.
I got so hot reading this post I had to take a ‘moment’ for myself. The idea of you taking his cum from deep inside her is so hot, I can feel your humiliation coming off the page as I read it. Again, hot beyond belief. I think when two people share such a deep connection as the two of you, then there is nothing beyond either of your fantasies/wishes that you couldn’t share freely and without later hurt. The key is open minded discussion to ensure you are both on the same page. The results speak for themselves Michael.
Very interesting, illuminating and erotic read. 💦🔥🔥🔥💋💋💋
I love the thought of you touching yourself while reading this…that is the greatest complement I could receive 🔥🔥🔥Thank you 😘 I’m glad it didn’t scare you off, ha! Sharing this story, in some ways, gave me the same angst I had when first sharing it with Sienna years ago. It is a mouthful, one might say. 😈 Btw, I’m sharing “Sensual Shadows” in present tense but these moments are all from the past.
I’m not sure why you thought it would scare me off, I love that you are free enough to be able to not only take his cum from your lover with your mouth but also be able to write about it, the thought processes that went into the decision, how it could affect you both (at the time) it was a risk worth taking I think. I would have been so wet had my lover ever done something like this for me, shared that level of intimacy with me, that is so damned erotic it leaves me breathless. I realised from the beginning that this was about your time with Sienna some years ago but the content is still very relevant to who you are today.
Anything more than a mouthful and you would have to share the load so to speak … mmm more cream anyone?
Uh … yes please Michael…💋💋💦💋
This is one of my hottest fantasies, though I have not actually had the pleasure of experiencing it as yet. To have my lover watch another man fuck me and we are both super turned on by cum, any cum, anywhere. But it’s something we fantasize about together frequently and has been the propellant to quite a few orgasms. I love hearing that there are others who are turned on by this fetish as well. 💕💦
Your comments always put me in such an erotic swirl with the visions you leave behind. 🔥You sprinkle a little erotic pixie dust and then off you go ☺️ It seems rare (though more common here in our circle of writers) to find women who might enjoy this type of play and it is always a genuine pleasure to hear from a woman that finds this hot. You are like a needle in a haystack. 💖And, totally agree about talking about these things during sex…it is great fuel for intense orgasms 🍑💦🍆
Then you’ll love hearing about that one time I read one of your articles to my lover and then we got all hot and bothered and needed to release our pent-up passion as a result.
I agree, talking about sexual fantasies is fun and very sexy. Especially in long-distance relationships. 💕
Mmmm, you are right…I am thoroughly enjoying that this happened and it is incredibly flattering that even one of my stories could add some erotic fuel to a passionate session between lovers💫🔥 I’m having fun just thinking about the potential topic of discussion 😈💗
I think one of my favorite things about reading you is how real, how vibrant, how passionately, unashamedly sensual you are. It’s like honey.
I am so grateful to you for sharing how you experience these readings. I feel a bit lost sometimes with how these are experienced. Many women avoid the comments preferring to stay in the shadows or simply don’t enjoy it. I know they can be shocking but I also want women to feel the heat and emotion behind these acts. It’s alway more than just sex. For it to feel like honey…mmmm 😋😈 P.S. I think you may have comments from me in your spam box. ☺️
I check my spam every few days… no, the problem is that for some reason WP does not notify me when you comment, so I have to actually come back to your blog to see any comments. And I have no way of knowing when you comment on MY blog (if you do) unless I just happen to see it. I don’t know why. You are the only one I know of that I do not receive any notifications for and it’s very frustrating because I enjoy interacting with you. 💕
Hi there, i like your page a lot and i follow it for a long time.
I Like especially how you try to give Cuckolding a transcendent meaning..
But how can I see the logged posts of you?
Thank you a lot, Apollon
Thank you Apollon, thanks for following my blog. I would love to read more of your reactions to my cuckold stories since this is something we both enjoy. 🔥My protected posts aren’t ready yet. I will release them as new posts once I have completed them. Is there one in particular you are interested in reading?
Sexuality and sexual fantasies, the more we talk about them, the more they become normality.
Will leave just a song here, enjoy:
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