I share this story with some trepidation. The revelation I am about to make feels a little embarrassing, but it is also extremely arousing to share. There is no doubt that the subject matter is of great interest – it has become one of my most viewed posts. Its popularity only increases the cognitive dissonance/angst I experience knowing others are reading. While I highly value the reaction of men to this topic, I primarily write as though I am writing to women. How women will react to what I share is the great unknown. That said, here we go…
The exploration of sexual fantasies between lovers requires an understanding one another’s erotic buttons, knowing limits, and establishing boundaries. This shared understanding was top of mind as Sienna and I shared a loving, erotic journey into cuckolding (her sleeping with another man). This shared understanding of boundaries was important to me because long after the other man had completed his stud servicing of my girl, the experience would remain part of our shared history. Discussing expectations, anticipating moments, and setting boundaries goes a long way towards ensuring the reality of the experience ends up being a hot rather than hurtful memory.
One moment we can certainly anticipate in any cuckold experience is that the couple’s Bull (the other man) is going to cum. This near certain event raises some obvious questions for the couple to discuss. Are there any places the couple feels should be off limits for the other male’s cum? For example, a woman may not want the other man to cum on her face, in her mouth, or in her hair. Or, she may not feel comfortable with her Bull coming inside her. The man being cuckolded may have reservations as well about what he is comfortable with his lover doing with another man.
There are also potential scenarios where the cuckold may come in contact with the other man’s cum. This could include the cuckold’s cock entering his lover’s cum-filled pussy or may involve the cuckold licking the other man’s cum from his lover’s pussy. How does the couple feel about this? Do they find it arousing or not? If so, how far does that contact go?
At this point in relationship, the question of whether or not Sienna wanted to experience a more endowed man had been answered – she was craving another man’s larger cock. Moving closer to making this a reality, I wanted to better understand her boundaries. Where did she want her Bull to cum? How does she feel about me potentially licking his cum from her pussy (a fantasy of mine)? Having a discussion with woman I love about another man coming on or inside her was going to be breathtakingly intense. And, broaching the topic of me eating another man’s cum from her well-fucked pussy (also known as a creampie) had me overflowing with excitement…and angst.
My plan was to bring up a WordPress article and comment thread on this very topic – men tasting their own cum or the cum of other men. This would give me a chance to gauge Sienna’s reaction. If it wasn’t hot for her, I could bail out on the idea before sharing my desires. Sienna and I were chatting one day when the opportunity to make a seamless transition to the article and comments presented itself. Sienna was curious and wanted to hear more about it.
I grouped the reactions into three buckets and provided a high-level view for her consideration. Some men enjoy tasting cum (their own or from other men) as a natural part of the sexual experience without any form of mental or power play. Other men find it exciting when framed as a submissive act and/or a form of erotic humiliation when eating their own seed or the cum of other men. The third group wants no part of it. I was eager to see how she would respond, but she hesitated. Instead, she asked how I felt about it. Damn, my great plan failed.
This was a tough moment as the chessboard in my mind played out. Sienna might find this entire discussion entirely unpleasant to think about but, knowing her, she would at least be open to my desires. Alternatively, Sienna might be soaking wet at thought of me licking another man’s cum from her well-fucked pussy but, not knowing how I feel, is hesitant to admit it because she doesn’t want to offend me. Part of her hesitation could also stem from her desire to be submissive to me. While we both want to make cuckolding a reality in our relationship, we aren’t really into the Femdom (dominant female/female led) layers often associated with cuckolding. In fact, she is actually quite submissive and thinks of me as her Sir/Daddy.
To gain insight into how a submissive woman can successfully engage in cuckolding, please check out Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective.
While I lean towards being dominant, I also enjoy a dash of erotic humiliation. I explore the psychology behind this in Erotic Humiliation – Exploring the Layers. A big part of my erotic humiliation experience is for my lover to tease me about having a little cock and her desire to occasionally experience another man’s larger, more physically fulfilling manhood. She loves me and my cock but sometimes just needs a little more.
The thought of licking another man’s cum from her pussy is an extension of my erotic humiliation. The other man gave her more than I am physically capable of providing, and I acknowledge my position in the sexual hierarchy by licking his cum from her pussy. There is a flip side to my experience though that elicits a more dominant reaction. My lover’s desire and openness to all of this is incredibly and undeniable naughty behavior. Such behavior absolutely requires discipline – preferably by me spanking and fucking the hell out of her for being so naughty – my naughty girl. This is part of the “reclaiming” that many cuckold couples often enjoy. In fact, it is often the most erotically intense part of the couple’s experience.
As I begin to answer Sienna’s question about how I feel about it, I remind her how she enjoys licking and sucking her juices off my cock and how naughty it makes her feel. She agrees and can see how a man might feel a similar sense of naughtiness when tasting his own cum. She presses me further, “How do YOU feel about it?” I flash back in time and describe a couple moments when I have I’ve gone down on her after coming inside her and enjoyed it. Tasting my own cum is one thing, tasting another man’s seed is a very different experience.
I ease deeper into our cum-filled discussion by diverting the current line of focus in search of other answers. At this point, I’m not sure if she even wants to the other man to cum inside her. If she doesn’t want this to happen, admitting my desire to lick his cum from her pussy seems pointless. I move one piece on the mental chessboard to gauge her reaction. “Baby, the thought of slipping my cock inside you and feeling it coated with another man’s cum would be such an erotic sensation. What do you think about that? Where would you want the other man to cum? Are there any places that work against your desires?”
Mmmm Sweetheart, I like the thought of him coming inside me too…especially you taking me after a big man has filled me with his creamy load. As for my mouth, I love the taste of your cum and love when you cum in my mouth. Baby, it is such a personal experience for me to have you this way. But, just like I wouldn’t want to kiss another man, I wouldn’t want his cum in my mouth. It is much too personal and something I only want to share with you.
At this point in our journey, Sienna has been consistent about not wanting to kiss the other man. She reinforces this today and adds that she wouldn’t want him to cum in her mouth. Personally, neither of these acts would bother me, but they are intimate boundaries for her. Even though she finds the idea of fucking other men exciting, there are some things she only wants to experience with me. Knowing Sienna likes the thought of another man releasing inside her, the possibility of experiencing a creampie is still in play. Now it is time for the money shot. I confess that I do find it exciting to think about another man coming inside her and…licking his cum from her sweet, little pussy.
One vision I have of this moment is of Sienna straddling my face after her Bull has emptied himself insider her. Her lips are flushed and swollen from having another man’s big cock inside her. His scent is very present as I begin to lick her pussy. Soon, his cum is covering my lips, spilling on my chin, and coating my tongue. My cock is rock hard as I work my tongue deeper and deeper inside my girl’s cum-filled pussy. She finds pleasure in seeing and feeling my arousal as I clearly demonstrate my acceptance of what has happened in a way she never imagined possible.
Wow, that is a hot, crazy thought!!! For me to fuck a man I don’t even know is so out of character. My desire to fuck a man just because he has a big cock is something I would have never done before meeting you. Now, for all of this to be encouraged by the man I love and for it to happen in front of you is crazy hot! Then, for you to lick another man’s cum from my pussy is such a crazy good mind fuck! It’s such an epic “wrong” in my head but it makes me so wet! This is an incredible gift you have given to me. I can’t even get my mind around you licking my pussy after another man has filled me with his seed. It is crazy hot, Baby!
Much to my delight (even surprise), Sienna finds it incredibly exciting to think about me eating another man’s cum from her freshly-fucked pussy. She even characterizes the entire experience as an “incredible gift” I am providing for her. It is a deliciously erotic moment to have the woman I love reveal her desire to fuck another man in front of me as a “gift”. And, to know it makes her wet thinking about me performing clean-up duties takes it another level. It is so exciting to be a driving force of energy behind her sexual liberation, and her openness to sexual exploration within our relationship fills me with such wild lust for her.
With the matter of sloppy seconds addressed, I ask Sienna if there are other places she would be excited to feel her Bull cum when we fulfill our fantasy?
Except for my mouth and ass, which will always be Yours alone, you can share me as you wish. You can tell him to empty his creamy load on my face and neck so you can run your hands through it as you fuck me hard afterwards. You can have him cum in my hair which I work so hard on to be pretty for you. He can cum on my tits, and then I will rub your little cock in his cum. I know that will be hot for you! He can pump his cream out on the lower part of my back so it runs down the crack of my ass and open lips. Or, if you want, he can plant his seed deep in my pussy. It’s up to you, Sir. However you want to see your girl taken—just not in my mouth or ass. I only want Daddy’s sweet little cock in my ass. Mmm, I sooo want and need your cock in my ass! Rub your hands all over it and spank me as you penetrate me slow and deep. I need you to have me this way. Daddy, your girl is really needing it!
Sienna shares a list of steamy places (other than her mouth) where she would like the other man to cum. Most are the same places she loves for me to cum too. Sienna does remind me of another boundary for her Bull – no anal. Like her other boundaries, I personally have no reservation against this but respect her desires. As our conversation comes to a very satisfying ending, I feel like I understand her boundaries more clearly and have also ensured that my sexy little girl has thought ahead about what she does and doesn’t want to experience.
Our conversation was over but lingered in her thoughts throughout the day.
Sweetheart!!!! Wow, that was such a hot talk today!!!! I was very weak in the knees when you shared your fantasy in that low sexy voice of yours!!!! Babe… As soon as your voice drops down into that lower octave and you get quieter and that sexy Mmmmm so yummy tone hits me…. F F F! I’m aching and arching for you!!!! Arching to stick my ass out a little more and expose my open wet petals below. I’m still so overcome with that “weak-kneed” feeling!!!! 😊 Baby, whatever happens and however things evolve…just know that our fantasies are “our” fantasies and expectations are only about what WE can control! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💜💜 I love you and can’t wait to see you next week!