Breeding is a fringe sexual fantasy that sometimes appears in cuckold play. In this form, it is often called Wife Breeding – when one’s lover becomes pregnant by another man. The variations of how this plays out are too many to list, but it is typically driven by the couple as an arousing possible outcome of a sexual encounter with another man. It is important to note that wife breeding isn’t a fantasy that turns all cuckold couples on and, even if it does arouse “some”, it doesn’t mean that they want to actually experience it in real life.
Note: Before I get any deeper into this, I want to state clearly up front that I feel children are beautiful, a precious gift to their parents and the world, and certainly should not be brought into the world to satisfy a sexual kink. Even if this were to happen, he or she would still be a special gift. In this post, I am exploring a sexual kink known as wife breeding. This fantasy involves a cuckold couple where the woman is sleeping with another man (the Bull)…and now having his baby. It is only a fantasy enjoyed by “some” who are turned on by S/M play such as erotic humiliation, submission, cuckolding, and/or sexual objectification.
I’m sure each of us could come with a fantasy or two that makes us hot but would never want to experience it in real life. Some women fantasize about having an octopus-like creature with multiple tentacles violating her every orifice. I don’t assume these women are going to jump in the ocean to fuck sea monsters. It is just a fantasy…and one worth exploring in the future.
Other women fantasize about being abducted by aliens and being forced to serve as a sexual toy or even being bred by aliens. These variations on breeding probably fall within the “woman in peril” genre of sexual desires.
By comparison, wife breeding – even though it may be shocking – is relatively tame. It is a “fantasy” that arouses me and one that has sparked the erotic imagination of several lovers. Okay, enough with the disclaimers, let’s get into the fun stuff. In this exploration, I will dive deeper into the psychological and erotic layers of the wife breeding fantasy. I want to understand why I find it hot, provide context, and conclude by asking for insights from women (and men) that may find it arousing or at least intriguing at the fantasy level.
Let’s begin our exploration by defining cuckolding since having a lover (girlfriend or wife) is an essential aspect of this fantasy. At its core, cuckolding has three core attributes. We have a couple that is in an emotionally committed relationship, the woman is sleeping with another man (or men), and the couple finds this arrangement wildly exciting. From this core foundation, the fantasy often has additional erotic layers flowing through the experience which are unique for each couple. If you want more information on this kink, you can find it here: Cuckold Psychology – The Essentials.
In my cuckold play, I have additional erotic layers which are unique to my experience and may or may not be shared by all cuckolds. Two of these erotic layers are compersion (finding joy in my lover’s pleasure) and erotic humiliation. These two layers play on my mind in a dizzyingly erotic way. I want my lover to experience the highest levels of pleasure she has ever known. And, it turns me on when she experiences this transcendent ecstasy with another man. When another man fucks my girl better, I experience this as a form of erotic humiliation. Additionally, erotic humiliation experienced in the confines of a private setting can be potentiated when the cuckold’s lifestyle becomes known in a more public way – such as when the woman becomes pregnant with another man’s baby. To learn more about erotic humiliation, please see Erotic Humiliation – Exploring the Layers.
Sperm Wars is another erotic layer working on my mind in this fantasy. In short, knowing another man is pumping his sperm inside my lover’s pussy ignites the full biological fire of male sexual competition. Men that experience this reaction generate more sperm, have firmer erections, and thrust more deeply. This intensely passionate reaction to cuckolding is often referred to as “reclaiming” and many cuckold couples cite this as the best part of the cuckold experience. If you aren’t familiar with the effect, I discuss it here: Sperm Wars – Seeding Passion’s Flame.
Let me take a moment to consolidate a few thoughts before moving forward. Wife breeding involves several intertwined erotic layers that trigger my arousal – cuckolding, compersion, sperm wars, and erotic humiliation. I get turned on thinking about my lover having sex with other men. The feeling is intensified when these more endowed men are providing her with the best sex of her life and physical sensations I am physically incapable of providing with my smaller cock. And, it fires up my heavy balls knowing this other man is pumping his sperm inside my girl. I haven’t addressed is the actual “breeding”, but the stage is set.
With all of these erotic layers in play, the potential for pregnancy, however unlikely it may be, is sitting there in the shadows. More often than not, this risk is addressed through non-eroticized ways such as birth control, condoms, or preventive surgery. In this case, pregnancy never enters into the sexual fantasy. Sometimes, however, the risk of pregnancy is eroticized. Given all of the layers that excite me about cuckold play, having my lover surrender her womb or having her womb claimed by another man, along with her pussy, strikes me an incredibly erotic “thought”.
In the sperm war, the male with the superior cock and more potent sperm has claimed my lover’s body in the fullest sense. Another man fucked my woman, put his baby (now their child) inside her, and she will now give birth to the conquering warrior’s offspring. Damn, my cock is rock hard as I type this. I experience this as an intense form of erotic humiliation. There may be an element of submission at play for me too but, even if present, it is just another thread of erotic humiliation flowing through my fantasy.
This is how wife breeding works on my erotic thoughts through the lens of cuckolding, but this is ultimately a fantasy for couples. Fortunately, I have had the opportunity to explore and discuss this fantasy in some depth with several women and will share those discussions in the future and link to them here as well.
I realize this topic will not be arousing to the majority of women that may read this. However, there may be a few of you out there that find this arousing or at least intriguing in the realm of fantasy play. Your fantasy may come in from a completely different space such as sex with aliens, being captured, or as a form masochistic play. If so, I would love to hear your thoughts…even if commenting anonymously. I imagine there will also be a few of my fellow cucks out there reading this. Do you share this fantasy? Did I hit the major themes? Is there anything additional or different in your fantasy?
- Cuckold Psychology – The Essentials
- Lilah On The Wife Breeding Fantasy
- Sienna On The Wife Breeding Fantasy
- Amanda On Wife Breeding
- Cock Size and Preference Poll (Men & Women)
A little tease from Sienna’s fantasy post on wife breeding – she was into it…