Sienna and I are a loving couple building towards our first cuckolding experience. We are engaging with Jalen – a handsome, muscular, bright, and well-hung black man – to join us in a naughty adventure. Our erotic buildup has been hot on many levels but the dialogue between Sienna and Jalen has increasingly taken on a more pornographic tone rather than the erotic vibe we prefer.
One of things I am focused on is setting expectations and protecting our vision of the fantasy. The experience we want to have is sensual, dreamy, and erotic. It is an experience where Sienna and I stay connected and share in the experience together. Jalen has a vision of the experience which is clearly different from ours and it is causing me to have some cognitive dissonance.
Maybe I’m being selfish but Sienna and I are the couple and we want to experience “our” fantasy, not his fantasy. Right now, it feels like he is driving the fantasy and defining what will happen. It is important to me that Sienna’s first experience with cuckolding is positive. If not, there won’t likely be a second. Jalen doesn’t have to worry about this because he is just going to fuck her and then move on with his life. Sienna and I will have to process the experience and it will become part of our journey as a couple. I want the memory to be a hot one for us.
I decide to email Jalen to reset expectations or at last reign them in a bit:
Subject: Fine Wine vs. Tequila
Sounds like life is pretty full and exciting for you these days. Speaking of which, I’m really looking forward to seeing Sienna excited and full of you! We’ve come a long way from the first back and forth sexy banter on our blogs. Really, this couldn’t have worked out any better. I like that it was our willingness to use our minds and creativity that drove us to WordPress and subsequently meeting one another. While your physical attributes certainly have Sienna dripping with anticipation, it is her sense of knowing you for a while and your understanding of our relationship that gives her the courage to finally make this fantasy a reality. I feel the same way.
Regarding our play, especially this first time, I want to ease Sienna into this. Being taken by another man will be emotionally intense for her and I don’t want her to feel like things are moving too fast. While it may not be coming through in the messages from Sienna, I am going to be very present and close to her throughout the evening. Feeling the presence of our sensual connection in the moment and throughout the evening will be important for us as a couple as we emotionally process this experience in our afterglow. Sustaining our connection is essential to us having a positive experience and our interest in future visits.
Sienna is a sensual woman…an angel exploring her naughty side. As I think about the vibe of our evening together, a comparison might be useful. One experience has the vibe of pounding tequila shots followed by Red Bull chasers. The other is like sipping a fine wine and savoring the rich multi-layered essence of wetness coating your tongue and filling your senses. Sienna is a fine-wine experience and should be savored slowly, richly, and deeply. As the evening progresses or in future visits the tone may change as we explore different types of play. Initially though, overly assertive or aggressive behavior will detract from the experience for us.
Sienna is delicate and flowing… a beautiful flower waiting to be explored and opened deeply by you ~ Michael
Sienna responds to a copy of the email I send her:
Sienna – Baby, I just read your message twice and LOVED it!!!! It was so good! You made me feel all warm inside. I like how you shared how connected we are and the way you used the ‘tequila-fine wine’ metaphor!!!! Mmmmm!
My email captured important elements that were missing in the messages between Sienna and Jalen. Our fantasy emphasizes the importance of our soulful connection during this experience but there is rarely any mention of my presence in the messages between them. Sienna believes Jalen has read all of our stories about this fantasy and understands the experience we want to have. I believe Jalen only feels and anticipates what she communicates to him. What she says is what he expects. And, what she is saying to him is creating expectations that are very different from our fantasy.