One the topics I explore on The Dionysian Experience is cuckolding and my journey into this erotic fetish. This post centers on a discussion I had with a lover (Sienna) about where her “Bull” would cum and me tasting his cum.

A key part of a couple’s exploration of any erotic kink is understanding what one another finds exciting, exploring limits, and establishing boundaries. As it pertains to cuckolding, long after the Bull has left the couple’s bed, the couple is left with that experience as part of their shared history. Pre-established boundaries, if any, go a long way towards ensuring reality of the moment and memories are pleasant rather than hurtful.

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One moment we can certainly anticipate in any cuckold experience is that the couple’s Bull is going to cum. This raises some obvious questions for the couple to discuss. Are there any places the couple feels like should be off limits for the other male’s cum? For example, a woman may not want the other man to cum on her face or in her mouth. Or, she may not feel comfortable with him coming inside of her.

The man being cuckolded may have reservations as well. There are also potential scenarios where the cuckold may come in contact with the other man’s cum. This could include the cuckold’s cock entering his lover’s cum-filled pussy or may involve the cuckold licking the other man’s cum from his lover’s pussy. How does the couple feel about this? Do they find it arousing or not and, if so, how far does that contact go?

Sienna and I were discussing a WordPress article and comment thread about men tasting their own cum. Some men enjoyed it as a pure sexual experience without any form of mental or power play. Other men thought it was exciting when framed as a submissive act and/or a form of erotic humiliation to be “forced” to eat their own seed. Some took it further and said that what they really fantasized about was eating another man’s cum from their lover’s pussy. She was curious and wanted to know how I felt? Before answering this, I should provide some context around our relationship.

Sienna and I enjoyed mental play and my favorite fantasy was a desire to see her taken by a well-hung black man. She loved when I whispered naughty stories about this in her ear as we fucked, and it always made her cum so hard. We were both fully onboard with making cuckolding a reality in our relationship but weren’t really into the Femdom element often associated with cuckolding. In fact, she was actually quite submissive. To gather some insight into how a submissive woman can successfully engage in cuckolding, please check out Cuckolding: A Submissive Woman’s Perspective.

While I lean towards being dominant and controlling in sexual play, I also enjoy a dash of erotic humiliation/teasing. Check out my post on Erotic Humiliation to learn more about this psychology behind this kink. I loved when Sienna would tease me about having a little cock and expressed her sincere craving for more—specifically, a Big Black Cock. I suppose it comes across as her being a somewhat defiant submissive and it always made me want to punish her…preferably by spanking and fucking the hell out of her for being so naughty. Also, the thought of licking another man’s cum from her pussy was another form of erotic humiliation that drove me wild with excitement!

Back to our conversation about the other man’s cum as well as the potential for tasting my own cum and/or her Bull’s. Sienna always savored tasting her juices on my cock after being inside her and how it made her feel naughty. She could see how I might have a similar feeling of naughtiness when tasting my own cum and pressed me, “How do you feel about it?” I reminded her that I’ve gone down on her several times after coming inside her and enjoyed it. It wasn’t something though that added an extra level of intensity for me.

We still hadn’t covered the topic of where her Bull would cum and her thoughts around me licking his cum out of her pussy. While I was somewhat indifferent about licking my own cum, the thought of licking another man’s cum from her pussy was definitely as wildly erotic form of erotic humiliation (check out that post for more on this). Before getting to this topic, I first needed to get her thoughts about where her bull would cum. I described how hot it would be for the other man to cum in her pussy and added, “Baby, the thought of slipping my cock inside you and feeling it coated with another man’s cum would be so intense!” She replied:


“Mmmm Sweetheart, I like the thought of him coming inside me too…especially you taking me after a black man has filled me with his creamy load. Sexy man, I love the taste of your cum and love when you cum in my mouth. It is such a personal experience for me to have you this way. Just like I wouldn’t want to kiss another man, I wouldn’t want his cum in my mouth. It is much too personal and something I only want to share with you.” – Sienna

Looking back on this conversation, her reply is somewhat striking at this point in our journey. She was adamant about not kissing the other man or wanting his cum in her mouth. Personally, neither of these would have bothered me, but they were her boundaries based on a level of intimacy she only wanted to experience with me. Even though she found the idea of fucking other men exciting, there were some things she wanted to reserve for me and, I admit, it felt special.

Knowing Sienna like the thought of another man releasing inside her, I followed up with my question about licking another man’s cum from her pussy.

“Wow, that is a hot, crazy thought! For you to lick another man’s cum from my pussy is a crazy good mind fuck! It’s such an epic “wrong” in my head but it makes me so wet! For me to fuck a man I don’t even know is so out of character for me. To desire to fuck a black man just because he has a big cock is something I would have never done before meeting you. Now, for all of this to be encouraged by the man I love and for it to happen in front of you is crazy hot! This is an incredible gift you have given to me. Then, I can’t even get my mind around you licking my pussy after another man has filled me with his seed. It is crazy hot!” – Sienna

To have the woman I love describing the desire and pleasure of being able to fuck a well-hung black man in front of me as a “gift” is so erotic. To know it makes her wet thinking about me licking his cum from her well-fucked pussy takes it another level. She has become so sexually liberated and it is so hot to be a driving force behind releasing her hidden desires.

I asked Sienna if there were other places she would be excited to feel her Bull cum when we fulfilled the fantasy?

“Except for my mouth and ass, which will always be yours alone, you can share me as you wish. You can tell him to empty his creamy load on my face and neck so you can run your hands through it as you fuck me hard afterwards. You can have him cum in my hair which I work so hard on to be pretty for you. He can cum on my tits, and then I will rub your little cock in his cum. I know that will be hot for you. He can pump his cream out on the lower part of my back so it runs down the crack of my ass and open lips. Or, if you want, he can plant his seed deep in my pussy. It’s up to you, Baby. However you want to see your Girl taken—just not in my mouth or ass. I only want your sweet little cock in my ass.” – Sienna

With this reply, she reminds of another boundary for her Bull–no anal. Like her other boundaries, I had no reservation against it but now understood her limitations more clearly and why it was important to her. We then addressed the potential scenario of me licking her Bull’s cum from her freshly fucked pussy. Unfortunately, she didn’t find it all that hot. Of course, time and experience can change one’s perspective. I will be writing about how Sienna ultimately cuckolded me and how her self-imposed boundaries held up in the heat of the moment when confronted with a thick 9″ black cock and a man that knew how to use it.

Interested in more?

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17 thoughts on “Cuckold Boundaries – The Other Man’s Cum

  1. I possibly have a fetish when it comes to cum (heh). I like it. A lot. I like the thought of where it goes and how it moves and how it tastes. I love the thought of a man who is free enough to lick his own cum from his lover’s mouth or pussy. The thought of him licking another man’s cum from his lover’s pussy just puts it over the top in hotness. Maybe because the thought of two men together is hot or it’s just the sexuality free from limits that I like or possibly because the visual is so arousing- dripping cum. I just have always found it hot. Ha, I suppose that’s not the point of your post. 😁 I think it’s great to be able to have these discussions about both desire and boundaries. And you seem very thoughtful when it comes to her needs. I would love to read the links but this has been a pleasant packing break and now I must get back to it! 😘

    1. Oh Lila, you definitely captured the essence of this post (imagining you capturing it in your sexy lips)…. 💦💋 I should probably actually ask the question in the post but I am curious how other women and men feel about this topic. You have certainly left a comment that has me dizzy with arousal imagining being in a scenario like this with you.🔥😈 I’m glad you enjoyed your packing break…you will be missed😔 Damn, just read your comment again…so F’n hot!🍆🔥🔥🔥 I’m simply fascinated by a woman being so turned on by a man licking another man’s cum from her pussy, mmmm!😘

      1. It’s such a hot scenario to me. The few times it’s happened to me (with his own cum) the thought of it is almost as good as the actual tongue. I might be a freak though. 😝😈 I’ll miss you guys too, but maybe I’ll post a pic from the beach. 😀👙🌊

  2. I had quite an amazing experience where my husband licked the cum of another man out of my pussy. it was anything from a cuckolding experience for us as he is not into that but was still erotic and a turn on none the less.

    1. Sexy girl, I’m fascinated by this comment on several levels. I’m trying to imagine a scenario where a man licks another man’s cum from his wife’s pussy…but he hasn’t been cuckolded. You know, all the other stuff about humiliation, male submission, etc is all just other kinks added to cuckolding. Does he express any level of excitement around you being with another man? Also, why don’t you share some of these hot stories you drop clues about?! 😀

      1. You know it was something he mentioned that he’d thought about before and I don’t remember the exact details of the conversation but basically it was, *if the opportunity ever presents it self than go for it* and it did. and then he did. 😛

        Yes, he’s expressed interest with me being with another man and it’s something we did but afterwards was difficult for him. Although I got a lot out of it, I think it will have to stay in the fantasy realm from now on unless its him that wants to give it another go.

        And ya know, I’m not sure why I haven’t written about it. I’ve actually had some really amazing experiences in the past year but for some reason haven’t felt the need to document them like I used to in my past life. Never say never though… xo

        1. Mmmm, I bet that was so hot for you to have him do that. I’ve always been fascinated by what a woman feels and thinks about in that moment…like what is that makes her hot? Of course, I know what most men feel about it but women don’t seem as open about sharing their hot buttons. As for sharing your naughty escapades, I guess it will happen when and if it feels right again. I couldn’t get away that though since my blog is a sex blog, ha! Well, maybe a little psychology and art. But, I know my niche. 😈😇

          1. what is it that makes her/me hot? seeing my partner turned on, turns me on, seeing them or hearing them experience pleasure gives me pleasure. it’s as simple as that. for me. 🙂

          2. Makes complete sense, you are such a special woman and so giving…always concerned about others and their happiness and pleasure.😘💖This whole idea of licking another man’s cum is such a turn on within cuckold play…wish more women were as open minded as you. Hope you’re having a wonderful week😘

  3. While I don’t know if I could watch another man take my lady, I find the idea quite arousing. Seeing her dripping with another man’s cum, does inspire an errection or two.

    1. Nothing wrong with keeping it in the fantasy realm. It took me over 10 years of savoring the fantasy before making the move to reality. Hope to have a few more posts out soon on this blog. Have a great weekend

  4. Michael,

    I am more set on enjoying my own cum inside of her. It has been and will be extremely erotic to see, smell and taste my semen inside of my wife. In the deep recesses of my eros, I have visualized another man’s semen inside of her…especially when I have already cum multiple times inside of her and to re-enter for more sets that side of me alight.

    1. Thank you for taking a moment to read this and share your reaction. I just read one of your posts (will read more in time) and your desire to taste your own cum does come through. It seems natural to me just as a woman taste herself when she gives us oral after sex. As for your feelings on tasting another man inside her, I certainly get that one.

  5. wierd stuff

    1. Sexual fetish. If it was seen as “normal” then it wouldn’t be a fetish. Thanks for the “like” though on this and several other posts.

      1. u r welcome!!

  6. This one left me speechless. And no, that’s not a bad thing🙈😄

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