One of the erotic layers Sienna and I have been exploring in our sexual fantasies is my desire for her to tease me about having a little cock. We still go around in circles a bit about the whether the “root” of this fantasy is factual or not. This sexual kink falls in the realm known as erotic humiliation and, believe it or not, has a very passionate and engaged group of men that get off on this. I explore the psychology of this fantasy in the Erotic Humiliation post. You can find it my Cuckold (Kink) category.

While I enjoy small penis teasing as a key element in my cuckolding fantasy, there are challenges associated with this fantasy. On one hand, I aspire to be the most amazing lover Sienna has ever had and we celebrate our off-the-chart sexual chemistry in the stories we share. Some of the more popular non-cuckold posts highlight other areas erotic exploration we enjoy. The audio of Push Play: Again…Again and the photo gallery (now a digital art gallery) Sienna’s Submission capture our exploration of Sienna’s submissive fantasies. Our sensual connection is expressed in the dreamy videos I Believe (Sienna’s Sultry Dance) and Nights in White Satin. 

On the other hand, this kink is driven by being “less than” and my lover’s desire for another man’s bigger cock…preferably a big black cock. Her sexual craving is free of the desire to emotionally connect with this more endowed man and is driven purely by her desire for unrestrained sexual pleasure. It is very arousing to see a sweet, sensual woman being consumed with such raw, primal desire.

Creating a space where a woman is deeply in love with me yet craves men with larger cocks is no small feat. Is it possible to create a space where a woman is comfortable embracing her wild side and break free from social constraints within the emotional safety of a loving relationship. Free of emotional angst and what society deems as appropriate behavior, can she accept the experience of another man as a “gift of pleasure” from me…the man that truly loves her? The erotic rush associated with breaking from societal norms is part of the psychology and behavior the ancient Greeks associated with Dionysus and it is, therefore, part of the Dionysian experience.

Knowing she craves “more” ignites a competitive wildfire of passion within me that makes me want to fuck the hell out of her…to fuck her like she has never been fucked before or will ever be fucked again. I explore the underlying psychological and biological drivers of male competition in the Sperm Wars post. It is real. Another force is the dizzying sense of Dionysian inversion where one, for a period, become what we are not…to be an alpha male that is cuckolded.

What follows is an excerpt from a naughty text session we had on this topic as I was first trying to establish “small penis teasing” as part of our sexual play. I had been locked down in a meeting most of the week and was craving some frisky mental play. I had taken some photos of my cock against a ruler and was thinking about how I could use them to have some naughty fun with Sienna. I kick start the hot fun with a text…

Michael – I’m feeling the urge to put my manhood to the measuring tap…

Sienna – ICFY!!!

Michael – What is ICFY? My brain is fried, ha! Incentive Compensation…? I Can’t Feel You?  Something about a little cock? 🙂😘  By the way, I took some photos of my cock by a ruler…

Sienna – ICFY = I’m crazy for you!!!!  Baby!!!!!!! You are making me crazy!!!!! Send them!

Whew, I hadn’t actually anticipated Sienna’s enthusiasm for seeing my cock against a ruler. I know men are more “cock centric” than most women but it strikes me as very hot that Sienna wants to know the actual size of my cock. I let some time pass as I think about whether to actually send them or not. I stall by sending her other photos instead of me in various states of undress.

Sienna – That pic of you in the mirror!!!!!! My beautiful hard, sexy, yummy Man!!!  Okay, so you teased me with more pics… Hmmmm are you going to send the others??????? Craving you!

Michael – Sexy girl, you want to see your man on the tape measure? It’s making my heart race…in a good way! Glad you liked the mirror photo…love taking photos for my sexy Girl! ❤

Sienna – Yes!!!! Baby! You have me so crazy intrigued! Mmmm, You make MY ❤ race!  Baby, your cock fits so tight and perfectly in your Girl’s pussy… Mmmm and YOU can touch OUR spot and make me cum so crazy in the most amazing way!!!!

Michael –  Mmmm, you’re so SEXY Baby!!!  It may not be what you expect! 😉 But, it is your cock and it does find OUR spot, mmmm!

Sienna – Of course Love!!!! Mmmmm, you make your Girl so wet and yummy!  Baby, are you punishing your Girl by withholding pictures from her????

Michael – Mmmm, I’m savoring the moment Sexy!  Once you see this photo…you will know.  Okay, here it comes…

Sienna: You are so naughty! Mmmm Baby…I’m waiting!!!

I’m looking at the photo, my fully engorged cock extended along the ruler…the objective truth free of emotional subjectivity.

The Dionysian characteristic of contrast and duality is flowing through me like wild fire and also engulfing Sienna. Our connection is full of love, devotion, sensuality, and passion for one another. The thought of her teasing me about having a small cock and building within her a desire for another man’s larger cock stands in huge contrast to these emotions. Going down the road of small penis teasing would be a step into the wilderness and a step away from social order.

I look at the photo and finally send an un-cropped version of this image…

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I am flushed with excitement as I wait for her reaction…then it comes.

Sienna – Baby, you need to see where * inches is on me!!!!!

As expected, her nurturing instincts come first. She comes to my defense wanting to praise me and build me up on the topic of cock size. Sienna continues to respond in a way that is full of love and talks about the incredible sex we have. Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this reaction. She’s never made me feel like I have a small cock or in any way lacking in my ability to fully and deeply satisfy her. Still, her reaction works against my fantasy of her craving a larger cock. I suggest that she added 3/4 of an inch to what she saw. She rounded up and I added it would be much hotter if she rounded down. She still comes to my defense…

Sienna – Baby!!!! Do you see where * inches comes up on my stomach?!!! Mmmm Baby, I love that you have this fantasy but you need to know…your Girl is little!

This was actually a hot reply, even if accidental. She is actually suggesting that a little cock can be very filling and satisfying because she has a little pussy. At this point, I’m also feeling a little uncomfortable for putting her in a tough situation. I can appreciate that this is a type of mental play she is unsettled with and perhaps struggling to understand. At times like this, I step away from the playful naughtiness and reach for our essence…

Michael – Baby, I feel the way WE make love and know you aren’t really craving a larger cock right now. I feel the way you Love me, and I hope you feel it in return because I am crazy about you!

Sienna connects with our love and then pushes the fantasy forward.

Sienna – Mmmmm, I love your words and I do love the way you love me! About your size, Ok, fair enough. It’s smaller than I imagined but that’s because you work such magic with it! Just as long as you know I feel so pleasured and fulfilled by your little cock!!! ❤❤❤❤ So, should I feel inadequate that I feel pleasured and fulfilled by a little cock?! ❤❤❤❤ I do like it too though when you get turned on and control fucking me with the BBC!!!!

Michael – Baby, this is a new layer for me to expose in this fantasy. You teasing me about having a little cock is such a hot mind fuck for me. I think this is something many men fear…this comparison. But, it all feels safe with you because it is part of  sex play. Don’t worry about this hurting my feelings, it drives me WILD! 😃😘

Sienna – OMgosh Baby I’m so glad you shared these thoughts and deep feelings with me. I so want to fulfill your innermost desires and fantasies. At the end of the day, our true fulfillment is about something greater, something deeper. A deeper fulfilling connection, as only known by US…WE!

Michael – So true sweetheart. I wasn’t sure about telling you the “little cock” part of the fantasy. I mean, I felt safe sharing it with you but that doesn’t mean it would be something you find erotic. I always want the fantasies we explore to be hot for you too, Baby! 😘

Sienna – I love how you are so thoughtful in sharing things with me, helping me understand, and loving me. It is so healthy and good for me. I find it all to be such a turn on because it speaks to your confidence and self-assured balance. It says, “Baby, I trust you and I’m putting it all out there…is it okay?” What a gift!!!!!!!!! A DREAM COME TRUE!!!!!!❤️

Extra Inches

What follows wasn’t part of the initial “Tale of the Tape” post on Sensual Shadows but fits within this theme. If you enjoy this kink, this was a short but very hot session of small penis teasing that still turns me on.

I came across a website that seems to cater to men that enjoy this kink and once talked about it with Sienna. She was intrigued. The site allows you enter your cock measurements (length, thickness, and a few other shaping details). You can then compare your cock to reported averages of various ethnicities, the average “ideal” size reported by women, a variety of other classifications (Mr. Small, Average, and Large), and even to actual porn stars. I went to the site and entered my measurements, gathered my image comparisons, and sent the images to Sienna.

Sienna – LOL, mmmm! Did you go on that site and put in your measurements?!! Naughty!!!!!

Michael – MmmmHmmm, it was very exciting to see the results and gave me such a rush knowing I would be sharing them with you.

Sienna – You DID?!!!!!! Awwww, that’s not yours, is it?

Michael – Yes, that is me compared to Mr. Big…

Sienna – NO! You didn’t get the volume right and your full head is more voluptuous than depicted! Compared to Mr. Big though, your cock does appear little….

Michael – Mmmmm, your comment is so HOT!!! All the specs are accurate. I have a couple more to send… vs. Mr. Black, Mr. Small and Mr. Average.

Sienna – (Looking at the second comparison of me to the average “Big Black Cock”) Mr. Black! LOL! Baby, I love seeing your little white cock compared like this. Baby, you are selling yourself “short”! You know what your Girl needs and what she wants!!! You know how to please me!!!❤😘

Michael – Selling “short” LOL! Nice, Baby! ☺ Mmmmm, I never suggested that I didn’t know what my sexy Girl needs or how to please you. I’m just exploring the type of tools we might need to get the job done even better. It all works incredibly well and is so HOT and good for US!!!

Sienna – MmmHmmm! Yes Baby, that’s why we are perfect together. Well, it is one of many reasons. You little cock fits PERFECTLY in my little pussy and ass! If you were bigger, I wouldn’t have the same desire to explore and this yearning for more…a longer, thicker, and darker cock…. Mmmm F F F Baby!!! I’m dying for my man to fuck me good, long and purposefully! I love your little cock Baby! Mmmmm! My Cock!!!!! ❤😘❤😘❤😘💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

With this, our journey into cuckolding and erotic humiliation took another step forward and became even hotter. All of my currently available posts from the Sensual Shadows series are available here – Sensual Shadows.

If you are specifically interested in cuckolding you can those posts here – Cuckolding.


51 thoughts on “Sensual Shadows – Tale of the Tape

  1. I love the way that you are teasing her, keeping her in suspense. I do the same to Tis. The build up makes the end result (seeing the picture) that much more exciting and wanting. I do have to admit that I think you are a good looking guy in that picture. Looking forward to the next installment of the story.

    1. Thanks for the love, brother! 😉 Your comment on building excitement is so true…it is part of the journey and makes the destination even sweeter! One of the things I love about blogging is the whole experience of actually living the moments and then being able to revisit them in stories and share with friends.

    2. The teasing is so hot and sexy…yet brutal at the same time! Thanks B…. Michael keeps me on the edge…Always! 🙂

  2. Sorry I didn’t read past the picture of you and your happy trail. 😉 Yummy!

    Okay, not true. I did read the rest. And laughed, because like B said he does that to me too as I do to him! Love the tease, the build-up, the anticipation…

    BTW, nice shirt. 🙂

    1. Thanks Tis! 🙂 Have to preserve the happy trail even when doing some serious manscaping, ha!

      It was fun going back and reading this. Sienna was so excited to see the photos, but I was really not sure about sending them. I was hoping she might get distracted and forget, lol!

      1. Sweet Love, you always distract me…but you know how focused I am…Never forget! Ha! That would be MY happy trail! xoxoxoxoxo
        Forgive me for not commenting sooner, you know how buried I’ve been! Not the kind of buried I’d like to have going on right now…which is your face, buried in my pussy!!!!!!! Yummy!

  3. Mr. Modigliani

    Hey you two gorgeous people. Thanks for the invite.

    1. Thanks Mr. Modigliani! 🙂 Keeping up with WP can be a full-time job so we’re trying to scale back to a smaller group of friends and spice it up as well…

  4. Michael & Sienna,

    Thank you for inviting my wife I to join your private blog. This is a subject I’m very familiar with and enjoy it as much as you do. The motivation and psychology behind it is fascinating. As you pointed out, sperm competition and sexual competition are at the heart of it, and your wife or girlfriend (if they understand it) can fuel your desire for this and it can add a lot of excitement to a relationship like it has ours. While it’s understandable why a man with a truly small penis would like this, it might be difficult for some to understand why men of average or above average endowment want this, but as my wife astutely pointed out, “Small Penis Teasing” can work with any cock size, because no matter how big you are, there is always someone bigger.” So Michael, whether you’re “statistically” average or not is irrelevant, especially if Sienna’s “fantasy cock” is larger. All she has to do to keep you “wired” is to remind you of this fact frequently and your desire to not only compete, but to compensate for your “shortcomings” will go into overdrive, and will make you wild with desire to satisfy her like nothing else. If she wants any hints on how to do this, have her contact my wife who has perfected the heart of small penis teasing. 🙂


    1. Thanks for coming along, Steve! 🙂 You guys cover this brilliantly in your blog. I appreciate the comment too…hopefully, you’ll expose some additional folks to the thoughtful, loving way you and 1Hotwife explore this subject. As you know, Sienna and I explore your blog often and it never fails to generate stimulating conversation. For anyone that may be reading this comment thread, what I love about Steve’s blog is the positive, teasing, playful and erotic way he and his wife explore this within a deeply loving relationship. There’s no negativity or mean-spiritedness at all…just super-hot fun and all love! Thanks for staying with us on our journey…as we will with yours! 🙂

      1. Michael…I KNOW what a small penis looks like so I say “Drop the towel!” and let ME be the judge…lol…as Steve said thanks for including us on your journey. You and Sienna are truly a beautiful couple and we enjoy you both.

        1. “Drop the towel!” haha, love it! 🙂 Oh, I am going to drop the towel soon but just like the post, I want to savor the build up 😉 Thanks for joining us on our journey, we are honored to have you both with us and so enjoy your journey as well.

    2. It was hard for me to wrap my head around at first, yet when I realized what this did for Michael and the way it sparked such a crazy fantasy for him … it was easy to then wrap my heart around this to please my Love! And then wrap my pussy around his “little” cock!

  5. Such a fascinating kink to me. Keep writing about it. It’s so much fun to watch you two explore, and if you can actually pull it off, the story will be worth good money to read. In the meantime, thanks for the entertainment.
    I can’t quit this comment without congratulating you on your body. I know you work hard at it. You might even make me consider switching sides, but only if there’s an audience to watch. 😉

    1. Thanks JK! I can appreciate that this kink doesn’t connect with everyone but, as you know, that’s why we call it a kink, ha! I had a lot of fun preparing this and always have a lot of angst and excitement around posting on this topic. Hmmmm, there is the contrast theme again…

      Thanks for the photo comment too, truly appreciated. 🙂 As for the switching teams, LOL! I was resting in the bed the other day recovering from the flu and enjoying a Sienfeld marathon…one involved switching teams–hilarious! And, having an audience can make everything hotter 😉

      1. I happily volunteer to be in this audience!!!!!!! Good heavens above — I would be in heaven to have B, ‘Tis, JK, Sofia, Michael and Sienna in the same room with me!!! Now that is one helluva fantasy!! 🙂
        And Michael — NICE body. Truly.

        1. Mmmm, that is quite a gathering you have placed before our fantasy-filled, dreamy eyes…the possibilities!!! 🙂 That would be a fun story to write one day…everyone filling in different desires and fantasies to be quenched as the evening or week unfolds–soooo HOT!

        2. I think audience participation would be mandatory at this kind of event. You are not getting off that easy girl. Just sayin’


        3. Tis, if the thought of being a part of that gathering could make me cum, how on earth could I handle actual participating???? 😉

        4. I don’t think you would have to handle a thing. Leave that up to the Men! or us ladies, if you are good with that. 😉


    2. JK I have to say on the switching sides comment … you’d have to arm wrestle me over that one! LOL
      I may have to start feeding him bon bons and lots of junk food to derail your fascination with his perfect and yummy body!
      xo Sienna

      1. You look super-fit, Sienna. I’m not arm wrestling you. 🙂 I’m sorry, Michael, it looks like it just can’t happen between the two of us. I know, I know, it could have been good, but I’m sure you’ll get over the disappointment. 😉

        1. Hmmmm, disappointment… maybe, now I’ll have to distract him with something more enticing! JK, you’re killing me! LOL

    3. Baby, I LOVE your sense of adventure and your willingness to try something once or (as you said) considerer it.
      It makes my life fllled with such sexyness as you make my fantasies come true.
      AS for having an audience… seems your wish can come true from the eager responses of D and T… Luv it. Count me in (but you knew that already.)

  6. Here I need the LUST button, ’cause Like just doesn’t do it. 😉

    1. Wow, thank you! 🙂 I’ve been hesitant to post when our blog was open to the world, but I felt more comfortable in our sexy little group. Your comment is both encouraging…and hot!

      1. You didn’t feel comfortable sharing YOUR body?? Bloody hell, Michael. What makes you think I’ll ever share mine then!!! (I will say that there is a lingerie clad shot of me on my blog that many of you missed — not ‘Tis, though. She is the only reader that commented on it!!! LOL)

        1. Wait what???? Lingerie shot.

          Damn girl I have to entice ‘Tis with some special kisses to give me that info because I am sure I won’t ever find it… 🙂

        2. and can I just tell you all that Sofia has the softest, fullest lips…..

          Fuck, her kisses are like nothing I’ve ever experienced before. I couldn’t help but spill. Which of course benefits you all, so thank Sofia for this one.

          and Desiree, sorry they’ve all had long enough to try and find it themselves.

          without further ado, the beautiful, the gorgeous, the talented and voluptuous Desiree G.


        3. Lingerie shot????? Where? I missed this…. and I went on to look???? Some help Pleeeeeease 😉

        4. I remember that picture Desiree, Red lingerie, Great Tits!

          Yep, the rest of you guys don’t know what you missed out on. 😉


        5. Now I feel even more deprived — ‘Tis and Sofia have kissed?? Where exactly was I? And ‘Tis — you just had to make it easy for them, huh?? 😉

        6. I couldn’t help myself, it was the most delicious torture. You’ve seen those lips right????


        7. Desiree, not sure how I or any of us missed that one…you must have sent it out early or late and then had spurt of creativity with several posts that moved it down the reader, ha! We won’t miss it this time!!! And, I’m with you on Tis and Sofia…I don’t seem to recall that story!!! If we don’t get details, we’ll need to start a WP riot, lol!

  7. Yep, mmmm, hmmmm! That is most definitely more happy trail in that picture.

    Fuck Me! You are HOT Michael! I mean, I was sold with your ass alone. But now you go and show off those side muscle thingies that head down below and DAMN!

    Whew! I need water now. 🙂

    Thank you for sharing you! xoxo

    Sienna, you are one lucky woman! xoxo

    1. Whew Tis, I think I’m blushing, ha! 🙂 Thank you! 😀 The side muscle thingies–love that! A guy has to stand just right to get them to pop a little…oh the things we men must deal with…

      Your mention of water has me thinking a long hot shower would be a great way to end the day and with a video and camera on the tripod 😉 Hopefully, Sienna will drop in soon and join in on the fun (she’s been slammed lately).

      1. I got a blush out of you! HAHA – I love it!

        You are killing me with your, “a guy has to stand just right to get them to pop a little”. LMAO!

        Sienna, I know the feeling girl! Hope your schedule frees up soon. Apparently your man wants a hot shower, with video rolling. 😉

    2. WOW, I think I missed the party bus on this one… towels dropped, steamy showers, tripods, Lust buttons, switching sides, audience participation… Climbing out of a long week of non-fun! I need a reprieve!!!! In the meantime, love sharing my sweet love (in little bits) with all! Blessed? For certain!

      1. Definitely blessed! You are killing me with your “little bits” comment. haha

  8. LMAO!! U two are INSANE(ly in love)! great stuff! 😀 -oh, and i absolutely appreciate the invite as part of your special friends 🙂 thank you

    1. Haha! Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for coming along into our more intimate group setting. 😉

  9. errantsatiety

    Deeply sensuous and deliciously exciting, thank you for sharing your sexy stories both of you. Heaven.

    1. Thank you, this was one of the few comments actually about the story, ha! We’ve touched on this theme briefly in other posts but I never really described the mental layers at play for me. Glad you enjoyed and thanks again for the comment. 🙂

      1. errantsatiety

        You are very welcome! And believe me I very much enjoyed the pics 😉 I have been thinking of sharing what I actually look like but am shy. I understand what you say about feeling more confident to share in a deeper way with the blog being private. Food for thought.

        1. Thank you for the compliment! 🙂 As you can tell here, people (especially those you have interacted with) are so very supportive and encouraging when you post photos. I think you will also enjoy the folks in this group and a lot of them will really enjoy your writing! Feel free to add a link to a post on your blog in any comment now or in the future. 🙂

  10. cpmandara

    Well? We’re waiting, too… Fess up, how long is he Sienna? 🙂 PS. feel free to share more pictures 😉

    1. Mmmm, I like your curiosity! Sienna, don’t give up the answer or I will spank your sexy, hot ass! Wait, if you give up the answer, you won’t get spanked…yes, I think this is the better motivator, ha! 🙂 Glad you enjoyed our naughty fun with this. And, there will be more photos… 😉

  11. I had to smile at ‘sperm wars’ because it has only recently come to mind after being with my lover and shortly thereafter my husband. I have always kept a lover but there had been that latex barrier between us – this is the first lover I do not use protection with- not so strangely it is not so complicated to deconstruct but a huge turn on knowing there is competition going on inside my body: I wonder who wins?

    I will most certainly take your recommendation on the other blog and read it forthwith which is a great part of the more intimate back and forth you are creating here.

    1. Whew, that is a hot, naughty comment! 🙂 I need to find and read some of those stories… Feel free to leave a link if you have favorite you’d like to share

  12. Sorry I am late to the party but I am glad I am …. this way I can read everyone’s comments and say Ditto.

    Seriously, you two are just too hot and sexy for words… perfectly made for each other.
    Love that you are lovingly exploring. Good luck, I am sure it will turn out great!

    1. Hi Sofia, better late than never that’s for sure! Glad you enjoyed the post…at this point, I think we have about 15 different stories going on in the comments, lol! 🙂 We’re excited to have you and JK with us…we truly identify with the magic, love, and journey you share with one another! 🙂

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